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Intrigued where they learn their craft. Would love to read these books.

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It has come to my attention that the internet can be a very very dark place. Within it , it can inhabit strange beings called TROLLS.

No not that kind in children”s books . Under the Bridge. Trip Trap , Trip Trap , bang bang bang. But people who get a thrill from taunting other people. Often perfect strangers that they can become fixated on. The celebrity stalkers. The glory hunters who latch onto to somebody who have appeared in the paper. No not those ones. But of the people who do some good work , raising awareness on all sorts of topics. Charity Fundraisers. The kind were it might be kind of cute to have a person who admires you for all the hard slog that a person does.

It is a sinister notion that some of the social networks harbour people who lurk behind their profile pictures. Some are anonymous. Some would like to shield behind a facade of secrecy. But it seems like to many there are those such people who become emeshed in bitterness at another . This is displayed in the written bashing of a person on their “wall”.Perhaps even rumour mongering, only to serve the purpose of plain old gossipping. Does this make the basher feel “good”. To cause humilation to others. Is it derived from jealousy, bitterness. Or even envy. Thank goodness for the REPORT, BLOCK AND UNFRIEND button. If only there was such an object in real life. To the people targetting others. The backstabbers,  A very simple message. “Stop taking yourself so seriously, get a life perferably outdoors in the REAL FRESH AIR ” . No I am not directing that at anybody in particular. You know who you are.

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The public perception of social worker is of a baby snatcher . Change the image radically , thenothers will maybe have a better presumption. Of course highlight the successes. But that does not get heard of. Just a mention I don’t hate ALL ss staff. Just the ones who “let me down ” time and time again. Maybe it is simular to other people ( defensive people/ angry people )

Protecting Our Childre

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like HELLO, why are so many kids on social networks. Common sense says Facebook are for over 13. What the Dickens is wrong with youth clubs that are supervised. Is it any wonder why there is so much sexual exploitation of minors online. There is always NO, and the off key. The little swines that are bullying the child in the classroom are possibly the same person online. Making it all the more easier. Social networking for many when younger was church or youth activities and get togethers.

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Those that state ” it never did me any harm ” need to look at what they have said. That is admitting that they have been smacked. That their parents found them to be naughty. So do people repeat the behaviour of their parents ? Is this were it originates from ?. The lessons of our own parenting. How do people learn to be parents. Do they read books? . Watch T.V shows? . Do they even learn it at school as part of the National Curriculum ?

 

It was deemed acceptable to smack children. It was even seen as the norm. If a smack got out of hand ( a thumping) , the Welfare /NSPCC came around to have a chat with the parents. According to the Offences Against the Person Act 1861 it is classified like this

 

http://www.legislation.gov.uk/ukpga/Vict/24-25/100/contents.

I can clearly remember etched somewhere in the back of my mind (maybe even my subconsious) that I remember the angry voice shouting at me. Then the hand , or object,  then the stinging pain of the punishment. I cowered away from the perpetrator. The perpetrator was “giant sized” .  Seemed like to me to be looming over me. I don’t like being hit or shouted at EVER.  To instill that fear into a child is just plain wrong.  Bullying person . That is the damage caused to me. Maybe that is the same for others.

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• The common thought of ‘they must of done something to the child , to have it taken away ‘ is down to suspision and not enough fact. Especially medical intervention. Parents particularly women are accused of having the now defunked F.I or Mu…See More

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• Only a person who has had that happen to them can possibly understand how that feels. Oh ppl can empathasise . Ppl can still have their negative oppinion . So if you have depression etc, be mindful that others will not understand. Others might call you negative names. In many eyes that is the hallmarks of bullying. Be careful of mysterious diagnoses from ‘experts’ that have never been your G.P.

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Official Complaint to Nottinghamshire County Council Children’s
Services Department

WHISTLEBLOWER

10th January 2012

Dear Nottinghamshire County Council Childrens Services. This is my
official complaint regarding the lack of action and care bestowed to
me whilst in the care of the local authority. I was in County
Council’s care from the age of five, until I moved to Bobbersmill at
the age of sixteen.
In September 2009 I wrote a subject access request to Ms Jane Todd
regarding my files. These were eventually received in April 2010. At
the time of my childhood my social workers were Margaret Humphreys ,
Jean Thorpe and Sophia Hunter. Their names have been previously been
disclosed before in correspondance, so they are now fully aware of the
contents. This letter is to complain about their lack of care and
action whilst under their care.

In the correspondance I sent, both Margaret Humphreys and Jean Thorpe
emailed me back. I get the distinct impression that Margaret fully
acknowledges my complaints, Jean advised me to notify the police. I
was also emailed by two duty social workers that had been messaged by
Jean , asking me what I wanted to do. I feel that I am being pushed
from pillar to post, the buck is being passed from person to person.
Passing the buck of culpability and pigeonholed.

I want and need Justice, out into the open . Not fobbed off ( as per
usual). As I pore through my records that I have here. I am puzzled by
the blacked out sections. Forgive me for being blunt, but isn’t that
against the law to tamper with government records? I would like to
know who authorised this blanket of secrecy to MY files then, and who
can release that information now. What is so secretive that I am not
allowed to see it?

There is no reference to a child that the foster carers alledge to
have living there at the time I was also there. His name is R
J W ( d.o.b April 1974). The exact same age as their adoptive
daughter R  B( now Connor ). To my memory he was
there for a short time. I originally thought him to be a sort of
playmate, or a previous foster child coming to visit us. But I think
that he eventually went to live at Mr & Mrs Settle’s of Musters Road
WestBridgford foster home. Mr &Mrs Berry and Mr & Mrs Settle seemed
very pally. R came to visit us in his teenage years. Ruth would
go off to play with kids at that foster home.

After deep research I have come to the understanding that I may also
have been drugged, to have memory loss. So I need proof of my medical
records and possible perscriptions for that ten year period.

It is without maliciousness or predudice that I seek this proof, to
have the true identity of who I am. It feels as if the protective
organisation that was put in place to help me, has put me on a mental
, backbreaking downfall of personal attitude. Lack of confidence and
clarity, which has allowed me to become a double thinking person,
without permanant mental function.

I have come to the understanding that it was not under my
responsibility , but of the adults whose care that I was entrusted in,
of which Nottinghamshire County Council as an organisation and Mr &
Mrs Berry ( long term foster carers) have not acted in ethnic
fundamental grace to my development. For example the somewhat racist
remarks coming from the mother of Mrs Berry.

So therefore in turn, it affected my own sons and family like
development , that has caused me to lose my own offspring to the
system- which has notified me and my husband through the Family Court
that I am not suitable to rear my own offspring. Because of this
nature of loss, I have suffered a lot of distress, which has often
caused me to raise a lot of questions. If fostering and adoption is a
amiable organisation, that in turn helps society, but robbed me of
moral virtue. It has come to light through these files that Margaret
Humphreys had recommended me for Psychiatric Care and Counselling. (
As early as aged seven years of age). I need to know the exact reason
that my foster carers gave to Margaret Humphreys, that I needed
Psychiatric Evaluation of sorts. And WHY most importantly she and
others left me open to abuses time and time again, having shared
concerns on paper of the “lack of emotional warmth” of both foster
carers. The risky activities being made to do against my will . The
way that everybody nearly connected to them , were my teachers ,
church people. Neighbours as well . Incidentally I was under a
consultant Psychiatrist Dr Rachel Leheup from 1986- 1999. I also have
these records in my possession.

Melizza Moore.

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There is common sense . This M.P is from the old school. He obviously does not like that parents are fearful to disapline their own children in fear that the Stalinist state, also known as Social Services will turn up and seize your children. But he is right in one sense. I remember as an eight year old I hit a little girl at school. Probably a childhood squabble that got out of hand. But my church going headmaster ( same church)  who was also chummy with my foster family reached up for his cane. The look on my face and remembering my history as to why I was in state care, stopped him from thrashing me. So corporal punishment ended in the eighties. Isn’t that a form of child abuse. Mr Brian George, you see I ALWAYS remember that terror.

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There is common sense . This M.P is from the old school. He obviously does not like that parents are fearful to disapline their own children in fear that the Stalinist state, also known as Social Services will turn up and seize your children. But he is right in one sense. I remember as an eight year old I hit a little girl at school. Probably a childhood squabble that got out of hand. But my church going headmaster ( same church)  who was also chummy with my foster family reached up for his cane. The look on my face and remembering my history as to why I was in state care, stopped him from thrashing me. So corporal punishment ended in the eighties. Isn’t that a form of child abuse. Mr Brian George, you see I ALWAYS remember that terror.

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Adoption breakdowns

Melizza Moore made this Freedom of Information request to Nottingham City Council

Currently waiting for a response from Nottingham City Council, they must respond promptly and normally no later than 24 February 2012 (details).

From: Melizza Moore

28 January 2012

Dear Nottingham City Council,

If an adoption placement breaks down, are the birth parents
automically notified. If not. Could you explain why ?

Yours faithfully,

Melizza Moore

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Just a little hunch. Toi all of the local authorities in the U.K.

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http://www.whatdotheyknow.com/request/children_apart_from_their_parent/new. Lets us see how many are accounted for – or a complete whitewash. Also sent to Ministry of Justice, Department of Education and Eire.

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NSPCC didn’t do much , when they knew I was getting proper beaten, writing it all down I discover from my ss files, ( thirty years later) , so this does not surprise me in the least. Coz who they are linked to.Social Services who don’t remove a child straight away if he/she is being abused, even though they often know. And that is why some children end up really screwed up. Because they have not had the proper help.

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Disgraceful, and if the children did not eat, what then, would ss have the same horrible oppinions? Dictorial nanny state of “you will OBEY or else ! What if the children remained the same size whilst in care/adopted  ?

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You don’t say !

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What is about Austrian men, first we have Hitler , then Fritzl, then that other lassie imprisoned for ten years , now this. Is it summat about the Austrian. Never mind the beauty surrounding it and the homeplace of Mozart and that Sound of Music.

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Was there any ungodly reason why this man was so badly manhandled and brutalised?  . Plain thuggery and the coppers should be done for murder .

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Mentioned by Constance Briscowe QC on the Wright Stuff this morning.

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She will probably have a “cow”  that she has been caught on camera yet AGAIN. But it wasn’t me who filmed it.  Time for your close up Kathryn. You must LOVE being as “infamous” as Jack the Ripper. Oh well at least this time, you cannot blame me. And you can’t stop the internet either.  Oops.

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In my possession I have a picture that tells a different story. Wanna see it ?

Shouldn’t that say “All violence shall be reported to the POLICE. Rather than Social Services !

Nottingham City Council Freedom of Information are LIARS. Just wait until I upload this picture to the web. They do have a secret list, they just hand it to Social Services and keep it all internal- like everything else.

Wonder what happens next after the Social Services department get this information, can anybody hazard a guess ? .

 

 

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My reply, ” Only if it is tastefully done, no seedy men taking the pictures , to highlight things like body scars and women should check their breasts”.  DONE !

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More on Hollie’s story

http://www.holliedemandsjustice.org/content/hollie-greig-scandal-breaks-mainstream

 

 

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Hate to see what they might have on me. All the complaints regarding stuff.

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This is utterly heartbreaking. But as on the other article reported yesterday. I have this comment. The two next ones on this story confirms what I thought......

http://www.thisisnottingham.co.uk/raped-week-arriving-kids-home/story-12954947-detail/story.html

Well I happen to know that this is all sadly probably true. But there are different options for survivors of abuse. One is a private prosecution, compensation from the Criminal Injuries Compensation Service. And or a Police Investigation. With a police investigation they'll investigate EVERYTHING to verify if it is all accurate. I think it is a very courageous thing to these people to do. And if this article helps more people to come forward to "speak out" . Kudos to them. Who wants to believe that there is ANOTHER Jersey Care Home scandal to embarrass the nation ?. We know that there has been scandals as recently in the last few months regarding Winterbourne Residential home. So why do people want to believe this is a cynical manoevere to illicit just a "compo claim? . Erm , don't think so !

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http://www.communitycare.co.uk/carespace/forums/adoption-csar-11121.aspx  Martin Narey is a loud mouth , who needs to listen to what he spouts properly. It is very Victorian moralistic attitude to say "unwanted children". I think he means "unplanned" A child is not a puppy that is an inconvienance. He is just encouraging others to think the same judgemental way. I hope that he dosen't know of any teenage mothers to put down in his stereotypical nonchalant way. He worked in a prison, full of ex care rejects, people with drug and alcohol problems and mental health issues. I wonder why ?

The child that has been placed with strangers, instead of ordinary caring family members is NOT going to thank the Social Care department in the long run. So it would be a wise move to quit thinking that every family member is as bad as the parent , the child is removed from. Is there any need for all the negative labels to demonise people ? There are many children residing with family members. A child belongs to his/her family. To separate families is alienation. That in it's self is cruel. It is high time the family court operated in what is really best for the child, rather than to keep stamping care orders to make all who enter it very very rich.

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Eat her way into an early grave no doubt, and where would that leave the selfish mare’s daughter ?

 

 

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Why is this berk pontificating about adoption AGAIN and AGAIN . Anybody would think that he had a vested monetary gain from it. Barnado’s chief,  or ex chief on a HUGE salary per annum. Mr former prison worker friends,  with the now deceased paedophile  Neville Husbands. Adoption pays evidentally to all the rich barren couples who want babies. Follow the money trail. Of course this influences social services to target teenage parents more. No kinship care mentioned. Tsk !

 

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Forgot I wrote these comments in my local rag !

 

 

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Hi I am not sure whom I am writing this too. Whether this is regional. But I am on the hunt for a new job. I did work briefly at the Nottingham Office until I left. The main reason why I left was due to the bullying mentality I was witnessing. On my second day of employment in which in my honest oppinion was very short. 1.5 hours at the most (in a busy loud atmosphere) we “newbies” were ushered straight to the phones. This in its self was strange,as I was expecting a lot more training as a one to one before being thrown to the wolves. Though it was NOT disclosed to us newbies that we HAD to attend “training meetings” before 9am. It was not made compulsory. We were promised “one to one”- didn’t happen. Greeted by hostile somewhat abusive customers when all you are trying to do is DO AS YOUR TOLD left me in anxiety. Not withstanding the head honcho himself yelling by the next morning at his teamleaders. Being put on the spot. Made to look inferior in front of the entire office. Infantile jokes ablazing in the work place. Somewhat sexual overtones, ( yuck , yuck yuck)  racial and discriminatory remarks that made a lady and two newbies leave. Catty Miss Fake tan ( Sophia )  next to me shoving me potential clients phone numbers for me to get the same abuse left me in tears. Nasty comments in general. That is not the worst of it though. But I ask politely that if it may be permitted,  that even though I appeared hostile myself on occasions ( I admit I swore a few times in frustration in the office) – though the language I heard from others was not picked up on at all. I might be given a REFERENCE. I kept my head down mostly to press on with potential sales. Heck,  I made two appointments in four days. I feel I did well in the circumstances. Although I became suddenly unwell with a “hypo” and had to raise my blood sugars urgently. That was picked up on by another team leader. Yes JENNA.  Though people were seen to be enjoying each others sweeties and goodies. Yours Sincerley Mrs Melizza Moore P.S   Incidentally could you possibly remove my name off the database, as a business owner The business that is still listed is Less is Moore, dressmaker / minor repairs. Proprietor Melizza Moore. Now I understand how telesales people feel ringing business owners, cold calling people , who frankly are probably not interested in somebody reading off a script trying in earnest to sound LOUD – (far far too loud, can’t hear yourself think ) enthusiastic, chirpy., bubbly, confident. Not to “wang” ( make it up as you go along) ,  that is deceitful to the customer. I usually put the phone down if I hear a call centre background) –  Who just REALLY  wanna crack on with actual interested customers earning possibly a fortune. If Ellie Rees of the Nottingham branch is reading this. I just want to say I gave up my business to spend time quality time with my kids !.

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Not only are social workers revelling in sexism, ageism and any other ludricrous notions,  they have now been demonstrated as being “placeist”. What is wrong with the Yorkshire way of life.? There are plenty of famous faces who hail from Yorkshire.  Wonder how the kids themselves will feel about this?

 

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Having met Chris Wittwer a few times. I can honestly say that he has been treated very unfairly. The other two were let off with a basically slapped wrist.

I have got this strange feeling,  it isn’t really about “football hooliganism”. Ten months imprisonment is harsh compare that to horrible decrepit paedophiles and rapists who get extremely short sentences, if any at all.

No I get the feeling that this is political. To stop Chris from “speaking out and campaigning” for a while. GAGGING him in effect, like the secret family courts do to thousands of people. For those who are not aware of what he does in his spare time. He is an avid campaigner against child abuse. I for one amoung thousands , support him. FREE CHRIS WITTWER…..

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Melizza Moore  <mjm10475@gmail.com> 29 May 2011 15:44 To: viewerservices@itv.com Reply | Reply to all | Forward | Print | Delete | Show original Dear Sir Or Madam I am an an avid fan of soap operas that our gracing our screens. I am writing to ask you a very important set of questions. How do you compile the research used to undertake story lines that include emotive topics such as these? Coronation Street. 1. Peter Barlow alcoholism 2. The issues regarding his son Simon and his newly acquired grand dad.Kidnap/custody fight… 3. The Becky McDonald / Steve/”Max storyline. 4. Kylie storyline blackmailing £20,000 from Becky and Steve McDonald. That is CHILD TRAFFICKING. A social worker would not just return a child that has been in any type of care without seeing the family a LOT before sending a child “home” Then only turn up a couple of times after this. I am perplexed to see that Social Services are portrayed in a shining positive light involving these story lines. 1. Dev, Sunita and twins storyline being taken into foster care and THEN returned within the week. That is not that accurate. The whole Child Protection Investigation ( section 47) can drag on for weeks, if not months whilst children are on a Interim Care Order or Police Protection in care. And heavily supervised if they are allowed “contact”. 2. There is no way on this earth that a convicted killer ( Tracy Barlow) would be ALLOWED to be near her child ( Amy)  unsupervised on release from Jail . Let alone have custody . The conviction may be quashed. But Social Services would have something to say. 3. The character of John Stape has abducted a young teenager, got married to the lovely Fiz , then had a baby. Had a “breakdown” , been sectioned. There is again no way that Social Services would allow John Stape to live with baby Hope. She would be deemed straight away from “At Risk of emotional harm”. And on the “at risk register”. 4. There is plenty of yelling, screaming arguments in front of children in T.V soaps. That would be classed as “emotional abuse/harm”. Plenty of scenes of physical altercations. In any of the plots in the show MIGHT reflect real everyday life . But there is this sentence that they have that is used to take children into care . It is called “At risk from emotional harm”. I supply one of my Freedom of Information requests for you to make it accurate for all the viewers watching the soap. I wonder if real life social services departments have smug looks on faces,  at the softly softly “nice guy approach” that is ALWAYS shown on television , instead of the way they really are ?  Thank goodness Saturday nights Casualty was more accurate. http://www.whatdotheyknow.com/request/at_risk_from_emotional_harm_2 Yours Sincerely Mrs M. Moore

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29 May 2011 15:44 To: viewerservices@itv.com Reply | Reply to all | Forward | Print | Delete | Show original Dear Sir Or Madam I am an an avid fan of soap operas that our gracing our screens. I am writing to ask you a very important set of questions. How do you compile the research used to undertake story lines that include emotive topics such as these? Coronation Street. 1. Peter Barlow alcoholism 2. The issues regarding his son Simon and his newly acquired grand dad.Kidnap/custody fight… 3. The Becky McDonald / Steve/”Max storyline. 4. Kylie storyline blackmailing £20,000 from Becky and Steve McDonald. That is CHILD TRAFFICKING. A social worker would not just return a child that has been in any type of care without seeing the family a LOT before sending a child “home” Then only turn up a couple of times after this. I am perplexed to see that Social Services are portrayed in a shining positive light involving these story lines. 1. Dev, Sunita and twins storyline being taken into foster care and THEN returned within the week. That is not that accurate. The whole Child Protection Investigation ( section 47) can drag on for weeks, if not months whilst children are on a Interim Care Order or Police Protection in care. And heavily supervised if they are allowed “contact”. 2. There is no way on this earth that a convicted killer ( Tracy Barlow) would be ALLOWED to be near her child ( Amy)  unsupervised on release from Jail . Let alone have custody . The conviction may be quashed. But Social Services would have something to say. 3. The character of John Stape has abducted a young teenager, got married to the lovely Fiz , then had a baby. Had a “breakdown” , been sectioned. There is again no way that Social Services would allow John Stape to live with baby Hope. She would be deemed straight away from “At Risk of emotional harm”. And on the “at risk register”. 4. There is plenty of yelling, screaming arguments in front of children in T.V soaps. That would be classed as “emotional abuse/harm”. Plenty of scenes of physical altercations. In any of the plots in the show MIGHT reflect real everyday life . But there is this sentence that they have that is used to take children into care . It is called “At risk from emotional harm”. I supply one of my Freedom of Information requests for you to make it accurate for all the viewers watching the soap. I wonder if real life social services departments have smug looks on faces,  at the softly softly “nice guy approach” that is ALWAYS shown on television , instead of the way they really are ?  Thank goodness Saturday nights Casualty was more accurate. http://www.whatdotheyknow.com/request/at_risk_from_emotional_harm_2 Yours Sincerely Mrs M. Moore

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smug, santimonious, grinning like a cheshire cat , bitch who got the cream. wipe that smile off your chops, as Peter Connelly is still DEAD.

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Some people are very very sick ! Poor children.

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And just where was he ?

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What day was this ? The 19th century!

Paedophilia and rape has ALWAYS been a criminal offence. Well at least in the 20th century……Mr Holiness. Check your law books whilst condoning the abuse of thousands of children. Filthy pig ! Any still want to worship the pope better read this article. AGAIN.

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There is another word for it too. It is quite a simple one CHILD ABUSE. What maybe acceptable to some customs, tribes is not in others. Don’t these people realise they are in fact committing child abuse to innocent girls.  In the name of religion, it is sick.

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Thank goodness Sara Payne NEVER gave up the fight. Eleven long years. But thanks to her dedication it is finally here.

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This is truly sick and twisted. I cannot believe what I am reading. Murdering a baby intentionally because of a ruck with your partner leads me to say one thing. Please tell me that she was found severely mentally ill, as no sane person would do that, would they? Or plain EVIL . I suppose that there will be suggestions that she was possessed by the devil, or the child was. I hope the image of her daughter will haunt her forever in her prison cell. Yes sacrificing of a child like Victoria Climbie and other simular cases.

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Very sad. Poor lady so desperate. Heartless pigs.

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Mr Clarke you are a national disgrace  and embarrassment. You have betrayed rape victims and survivors with your stupid =comments". I urge you to talk to some of these people face to face. Then tell the nation what they need to hear to make assailants get LONGER sentences for this dreadful crime. 

Is it any wonder why rapists are "literally let off on ludicrous sentences".Or if they are even reported to the Crown Prosecution service.  Because of the old school man- ludicrous thinking of the people making the law.

 I'm sure if Kenneth Clarke was raped ( Yes it is very possible for a man to be raped too ) he'd soon change his way of thinking.

 Perhaps the Nottingham  Evening Post can recommend to Kenneth Clarke as part of his way of formal  apology he can speak to survivors and victims of Rape.

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I think in truth the “system” deliberately neglects families all over, then uses “transferance” to take the children into care. The more support that they need is the evidence that means children go. But it is very very unfair that foster carers get paid a shed load of money , get support social workers around the clock ,  training , offered respite . When the parents get none of this. But could have done.

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Just what does the Justice Minister really do,  about from say stupid things from time to time?

 idiot man, wonder how he’d like it if it happened to him. Then being dismissed by some pompous PRATT. 

Mother-Son Incest: Hidden in Shame and Rising

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After hearing about women such as Rosemary West,  Myra Hindley , who watched as her partner Ian Brady sexually assault children. Nothing suprizes me any longer. The most recent scandal involving Nursery Nurse Vanessa George and other perpetrators it is not all that shocking really. It is just as sickening as if a man was doing it.

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By SUSAN DONALDSON JAMES

Dec. 1, 2009

The molestation began as gentle fondling when Gregg Milligan was 4 years old, but it soon escalated to aggressive touching and eventually beatings that would render him unconscious.

For seven years, until Michigan child welfare workers intervened when he was 11, Milligan was too ashamed to reveal that his tormentor was his own mother.

“She was very brutal,” said Milligan. “Through her difficulty reaching climax, she would become frustrated and violent, hitting and punching and slapping not only my genitals, but my face and body.”

“It was terribly confusing, and it wasn’t just the violation,” said Milligan, now 46, and director of infrastructure for a major health care provider in Michigan.

As bad as the incest was, things got worse. Milligan’s father had left when he was 2, but by the time he was 8, his mother, an alcoholic and aprostitute, invited strange men home who would sexually abuse him.

“Back then I would never tell anyone, not even a sibling,” said Milligan, the most “compliant and sensitive” of three children living at home. “I was just too afraid. It was so horrendous for me to believe she actually would do this to me.”

One of the unspeakable secrets in the world of child sexual abuse is that mothers can be molesters. Often, they prey on daughters, but more frequently their sons — who report increased feelings of isolation and sexual confusion along with thoughts of suicide.

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Gregg Milligan, and his mother.

Both of Milligan’s parents are now dead, but his past still haunts him.

“Around 10 years old, I started to get this unbelievable feeling of dread that if I don’t get out I am going to die from the decadence, the debauchery, the forced molestations and the beatings that became more severe,” he said. “For three months I suffered from hysterical paralysis.”

An estimated one in four girls and one in seven boys will be sexually assaulted or abused before the age of 18, according to the Alabama-based National Children’s Advocacy Center . In 27 percent of these cases, the abuse is perpetrated by the child’s parents.

Previous studies of day care workers published in 2000 in the Journal of Sex Research, found that women — without male accomplices — accounted for only about 6 percent of the abuse of females and 14 percent of males.

But more recent national surveys indicate about 12 percent of all child abuse cases are committed by women — “a 100 percent increase compared with previous data,” according to Chris Newlin, NCAC’s executive director.

“We view females as care givers and protectors of children,” he told ABCNews.com. “Now we are beginning to understand females are sexually abusing children, and it is occurring much more.”

Professionals are stymied by public perception that incest is “an ugly subject,” and that women can’t commit such crimes.

“If it’s a 35-year-old female and a 14-year-old boy, we’d say the boy is getting lucky,” said Newlin. “And if it was a 35 year-old male and a 14-year-old girl, we’d call that a pervert.”

Mother-Son Incest Often Unreported

And boys like Milligan aren’t often believed.

“We have this overarching thing that goes back to the Salem witch trialsof children making up stories,” said Newlin. “You can’t trust kids.”

Survivors like Milligan say that these crimes often go unnoticed, not just because society can’t imagine women as aggressors, but because boys feel riddled with shame.

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So easy to diagnose “Personality Disorder” to a person who is not like “every body else”. Or like the tester. When it is easier to say Evil Mother who murdered her kids to spite her ex husband.

Hospital in Britain ‘allowed him out’

By GARY O’SHEA and ANDY CRICK

MANIAC Deyan Deyanov was released from a BRITISH psychiatric hospital before he went on to kill, it was claimed yesterday.

Relatives of the Bulgarian said he had been detained in the UK while visiting an aunt here.

And they blamed British authorities for letting him out, after which he returned to living in Tenerife.

Horror … cops with body

A cousin told The Sun the drug-using killer had come to see relatives here just before Christmas.

The cousin, who lives in England, said: “His dad in Bulgaria has washed his hands of him so he came here.

“The family had problems with him, he was asking for money and looked scruffy. He was talking nonsense and said he was the son of God and things from the Bible.”

Deyanov’s behaviour got worse and his worried aunt phoned police.

The cousin went on: “They sectioned him and took him to a psychiatric unit in Cheshire. They only kept him there for a month.

“I think the hospital should have kept him longer and treated him. If they hadn’t released him this would not have happened.”

Police and NHS officials in Cheshire refused to comment.

Comments posted on Facebook claimed Deyanov had only just been released from a “nut house” in Tenerife and “lost the plot”.

Security officials in Tenerife said they had been powerless to kick him out because he was an EU citizen

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weird, totally weird these new fads are. But the man that died , well that is sad. I thought the BBC had said the wrong word at first. Planking? as is in Plank of wood.

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This is not about “picking on people”. This is about raising awareness that 1 in 4 people suffer from mental health issues. But do we know and understand this to be the case? . Those who openly admit it,  are applauded for being so brave by admitting it out in public. Good for them I say. There should be no  shame in admitting , that all might be  not so good “upstairs”  in the old noodle.

Stigmatisation and prejudice can kill. Awareness and education is key.  Here is a list that suggests mental health issues.  This is going back a few years.  Some might have dropped into rehab by now. Others may be “cured”.  Others might just let it hang out ! According to the DSM 1V we are all technically are suffering from mental illness. If you don’t believe me check it out. http://www.psychiatryonline.com/resourceTOC.aspx?resourceID=1

1. Michael Barrymore ( Depressive, Alcohol issues)

2. Stephen Fry ( Bipolar)

3. Patty Duke ( American Actress)

4. Britney Spears ( Rumoured a while ago,  to have Bipolar, but had a “melt down” )

5. Kerry Katona   ( Bipolar, now looks incredible recently)

6. Amy Winehouse ( drug user of all sorts, dunno where she is at now )

7. Robbie Williams ( went a bit of self destruct path a while ago, now looking fabulous)

8. David Beckham ( admits to being obsessed with items , O.C.D)  looks great though.

9. Edith Piaf

10. Sylvia Plath ( Novelist, committed suicide didn’t she? )

11. Vincent Van Gogh ( committed suicide ) depression

12. Richard Dadd ( artist) Schizoprenia

13. Billie Holliday ( Drug Abuse, depressive traits)

14.Lindsey Lohan ( drug use)

15. Charlie Sheen ( just addicted to everything, sex, booze and drugs )

16. Catherine Zeta Jones ( Bipolar)

17. Princess Diana ( low self esteem, bulmia nervosa.)

18. Kurt Cobain was rumored to have undiagnosed ADHD .

19. Wolfgang Amdeus Mozart was said to have ADHD

20. Adolf Hitler ( Tertiary Syphillis) that can cause derangement

21. Sigmund Freud ( cocaine user, can induce paranoia)

22. Katie Price ( well where shall we start, low self esteem, vanity, possible body dysmorphic disorder) but I apologise to her former husbands for adding her here. But Katie- you need HELP. Because you are car crash just waiting to happen !

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I know that this might be a pretty morbid topic to discuss on my blog. But a few years ago I just happened to be thinking,  about what a shame so many people passed away so young. So I wrote a list. As if by magic whilst rooting through my cupboards,  that admittedly I have not delved deeply for a good long while I found it.

1. Wolfgang Amadeus Mozart ( 18th Century composer and musician ) ,  Age thirty five of “Exhaustion/possible poisoning.

2. Judy Garland,   ( Drugs Overdose ) 1969 Aged Forty Seven

3. Janis Joplin , Aged Twenty Seven 1970  ( Drugs Overdose)

4. Elvis Presley ,  Aged Forty Two ( Heart Failure ) August 15th 1977.

5. River Phoenix  ,  ( Drug Overdose ) 1993

6. Heath Ledger ,  Aged Twenty Eight ( Drugs Overdose)

7. Marilyn Monroe,  Aged Thirty Six , 5th August 1962  ( Drugs Overdose)

8. James Dean,   Aged Twenty Four 3oth September 1955

9. Patsy Cline,   Plane Crash 1962

10. Lisa “Left Eye” Lopez ,  Plain Crash

11. Buddy Holly,  Plane Crash 2nd February 1959

12. The Big Bopper  ”

13. Richie Valens , Aged Seventeen “

14. Kurt Cobain,   April 1995 ( Gunshot suicide )

15. Princess Diana ,  August 31st 1997 Car Crash , Aged Thirty six

16. Aaliayah ,   Plane Crash

17. Anna Nicole Smith ,  2007 ( Drugs Overdose)

18. Paula Yates , 2000 ( Drugs Overdose)

19. Michael Hutchence,   ( Hanging / Asphyxiation) 1997

20. Dana Plato , ( Diff’rent Strokes star ) ( Drugs Overdose)

21. Freddie Mercury,  November 1991. ( Aids related illness)

22. John Curry,  ( Ice Skater) “

23. John Belushi , March 1982 ( Drugs Overdose)

24. Alexander McQueen ,  ( Suicide)

25. Sid Vicious

26. Jimi Hendrix,  ( 1970) Fell into pool and drowned

27 Jill Dando,  ( Murdered in 1999)

28 . Gianni Versace , ( Murdered)

29. Mark Speight,  (  Children’s T.V presenter)  Suicide

30. Heather O’ Rourke,  ( star of Poltergeist) 1988  (after sudden illness)

31. Sharon Tate 1969 Murdered

32. John Lennon 1980 Murdered

33. Steve Biko , South African Civil Rights Campainer ( Tortured) 1977

34. Martin Luther King 1968 ( Assasinated)

35. John F Kennedy 1963 “

36. Malcolm X ( Shot?)

37. Bruce Lee

38. Karen Carpenter ( Heart Failure) Aged Thirty Two , arising from Anorexia Nervosa

39. Gene Anthony Ray ( Leroy from Fame)

40. Jermaine Stewart

41. Tupac

42. Brandon Lee ( son of Bruce Lee)  Mysterious Death whilst shooting The Crow.

43. John Candy ( Heart Attack) in his forties.

44. Mama Cass Elliott ( Mamas and Papas) Heart problems. Aged Thirty Two

45. Lena Zavaroni ( singer) from complications from brain surgery to cure Anorexia Nervosa)

46. Bobby Kennedy ( Assassinated 1968)

47. Michael Jackson ( Heart Attack) June 2010

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Keep reporting Mr Booker. The Judges are “twitching” because they know you have hit the nail on the head.

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Oooh risque. If he is a closet Fred West. Then the people making this movie are going to be in danger. People “disappear” or die of “natural causes” or suddenly if this is true. Not very good timing for the Royal Family less than a month after the wedding of the century.

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It was her duty to protect her daughter. Social Services who failed to intervene to save her daughter are also to blame  , if they knew all of this. But the uncle posed a danger. Why didn’t she keep her daughter away from him?  Or reported her concerns. I hope that she is not  after compensation money to fund her lifestyle further. Shouldn’t be “getting clean” to prove herself ?

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Religion and mental illness go hand in hand. It is how you interpret what is being taught to you. Or if you realise in time that you are being manipulated and brain washed. But there is no excuse.

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For a while now I have been thinking  of the above words,  that  I have seen something quite worrying. I want you to stay with me on this one. Look at the names listed below and think to yourself what is the connection.

1. Judy Garland

2. Marilyn Monroe

3. Jim Morrison

4 . John Belushi

5. River Pheonix

6. Jimi Hendrix

7. Janis Joplin

8. Mama Cass

9. Elvis Presley

10. Heath Ledger

11. Corey Haim

12. Michael Jackson

13. Kurt Cobain

14. Sid Vicious

Can you think of anymore?  If so feel free to add them to the list. Very well known names you might reply. But look at the connection. All of them were known to have been “drug users”.  There are reports of them having underlying mental health problems.  For instance Judy Garland born in 1922 as Frances Ethel Gumm was plied with prescription medication from a very young age. In order to keep her slim, she was medicated with “slimmers” which would notably contain Amphetamine ( Speed/whizz )  in them. To help go to sleep,  she would be given tablets. Her life was a ever revolving door of medications.  This caused subsequent addictions. In which she would be listless and depressed.  Leaving her to take YET more medications. Judy Garland died in the late 1960′s of a DRUG OVERDOSE. In her restroom.  Face down literally in  her toilet.

Elvis Presley died on August 15th 1977 in his bathroom of apparent “heart failure”  brought on by morbid obesity and drug usage . But a long time in the high life saw him taking huge quantities of  ”prescribed medications”.

Poor Marilyn Monroe born as Norma Jean Baker in 1926 was the daughter of a depressive mom. In and out of mental institutions , As the young Norma Jeane Baker was in and out of numerous institutions throughout her childhood. In foster homes. Alone, abandoned. Married at sixteen. Become the iconic Marilyn Monroe  aged roughly 19, who was graced with natural poise and beauty. Marilyn’s fate left a closely guarded secret ,  apart from within Hollywood circles,   that her Psychiatrist etc, was prescribing her high levels of “medications”.  August 5th 1962 , Marilyn Monroe died alone in her bedroom. Believed to be a drug overdose. But numerous suicide attempts are known to have happened. Emotional instability. Married repeatedly. A somewhat melancholic lady inside. Regularly throwing filming into chaos with her lateness.

River Jude Phoenix born of a hippy family someplace in USA . Parents in a cult during their transient way of life. Film star of many films including Stand by me,  The Explorers.  Staunchly “clean living”, vegan ends his days in his friends nightclub. The Viper Room – in the mid 1990′s of a lethal combination of Heroin/cocaine “speedball”. Class A drugs.  Self inflicted.  Recreational. His brothers and sisters also film stars.

The others I have mentioned are known drug users. Jimi Hendrix dies age 27 in his pool, as does Janis Joplin ( age 27) and Kurt Cobain. Very sad that they went to their deaths in a drug induced state.  Was it the fame that led them onto the path of drug taking. For pleasure or “emotional turmoil ? Janis Joplin thought that she was ugly. John Belushi dies in 1982 of a “speedball intoxication whilst shooting a movie. This brings me onto Michael Jackson. Global icon dies in his mansion June 2010 surrounded by “prescribed medications”. His face anf form ravenged by plastic surgery to “cure” his beautiful looks. Brought on through years of emotional abuse inflicted by his father. Trying to get rid of his features. Thus transforming himself into like a charactericture. Not quite looking masculine or even feminine. But sadly dying from a “heart attack” aged 50. Kurt Cobain rumored to have killed himself , but did he ?  The world loses these legends in body. But we are left with their arts. Forever more.

How do doctors know what is INSIDE a person’s mind,  when you cannot see inside  of the mind? Is mental illness really ” all in the mind”, or is there a trace that can be detected just by looking at a person?  Knowing their individual stories that they, WE all carry inside. People who are said to suffer from Hallucinations , how do we know that what these people are seeing is NOT real? It is REAL and frightening to them .  Or the words DELUSIONS  is not a very  real set of thoughts, but we on the outside simply cannot “see it”.

It is not possible to “catch” mental illness, but drug use,  alcohol can have a big difference to a persons mental equilibrium. It is possible to inherit mental health problems. Such as Schizophrenia and related conditions  if a family member has it. It is not Split Personality or multiple personality. It is disordered thinking.  It is quite possible to inherit Bipolar Disorders. But it is even more credible that we “learn” from what is around us.

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If you are down in the dumps this Friday night. I would like to offer you some humour by way of this http://www.cowdery.org.uk/rude.php ENJOY.  xx

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http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b00yrt1c/The_Worlds_Worst_Place_to_Be_Gay/

I am glad for once living in a civilised society,  where such PREDUDICED oppinions are not as badly used.  I would expect that kind of predudice to be consigned in the rubbish bin of the early twentieth century. I hope not to sound racist here, but I might offend some people. But I am glad I am not living in Africa or anywhere that purports such vile comments. It encourages bigotry and very dangerous ideologies.

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3578232/PM-David-Cameron-reopens-Maddie-McCann-files.html

There are THOUSANDS of children that go missing in the U.K , but only one child receives this kind of attention from the Prime Minister. I cannot help thinking that it might be said ,  that the child concerned is from an affluent middle class couple , who been in the press all the time. But what about the other children that have been missing for decades, never to be seen or heard from again. Is David Cameron going to do the same for all the children?

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3577658/Couch-potato-kids-show-signs-of-heart-disease-at-9.html

I can remember at nine years of age one of my favourite past times was making dens and “scrambling” on my Raleigh bike with fellow friends on our road . I was out from dawn until dusk, only returning for lunch and tea. How times have changed sadly.

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http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/top-stories/2011/05/12/madeleine-mccann-scotland-yard-to-aid-search-for-missing-girl-after-parents-impassioned-appeal-115875-23126613/

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http://www.mirror.co.uk/news/top-stories/2010/12/24/mother-left-three-girls-home-alone-to-go-clubbing-115875-22803915/

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/culture/tvandradio/8510180/A-Very-Dangerous-Doctor-Channel-4-review.html.

The man made my flesh crawl. I still have goose pimples after just watching it. A very egotistical arrogant man hell bent on furthering his career and “research” of innocent children. Really poorly children. God knows how and if he sleeps at night. No conscience, no remorse. He is right always. Well no, he isn’t. Conceited macho ape. With a god complex. ( Narcissistic oaf )

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3574322/Come-die-with-me.html

So what edible snack was on offer?

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3575748/KATE-and-Gerry-McCann-today-call-on-David-Cameron-to-re-launch-the-search-for-Maddie.html.html

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3576645/Nazi-death-camp-guard-guilty.html

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3575442/Man-cleared-of-killing-TV-host-Jill-Dando-could-get-14m-compensation-after-a-judges-ruling-last-night.html

About time too. ONLY 11 years after the fact.

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http://www.communitycare.co.uk/Articles/2011/05/10/116762/majority-of-uk-families-at-risk-of-crisis.htm

Good lord!

I think the families themselves can identify their own issues , correctly better than a social care department. This article makes perfect sense. But are they going to return ALL of the children because of the “above reasons” detailed in their own magazine. That is the way the country can reduce the costs that are gurgling down the drain. If social services ACTUALLY sign posted families to the agencies that can help,  might actually assist the family into staying together effectively and most importantly SAFELY.

Every body has a crisis, now and again. Perhaps even the people who are making these descisions.  So what now?

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http://www.independent.co.uk/opinion/leading-articles/leading-article-damaging-perceptions-of-child-abuse-2278946.html

My Comment in the newspaper

“Parents always get viewed with immediate suspision. It is clear in recent times that parents are not the only suspects. People in authority have had child abuse levelled at them too. Priests, police officers, teachers, social workers themselves, lawyers. The list is endless. Anybody is capable of child abuse. It is a loose description of what EXACTLY this entails. It brings shivers down spines. I doubt anybody wakes up thinking “today I am a child abuser”. Today I am inflict suffering to a child. It needs to be educated in the right way and not distorted and blown out of proportion. Not every parent will hurt their children, so why tar everybody with the same brush. We are not all like Tracey Connelly, Angela Gordon and the other well publisised “child abusers”. There are many people who have been given corporal punishment as a child. Does this mean a school teacher can now be arrested for physical abuse within the bracket of child abuse. Just a thought!@londonfilmsLondon u.k , @innocentvoiceuk”

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http://www.hsl.virginia.edu/historical/eugenics/3-buckvbell.cfm

Carrie Buck was merely deaf.  This still goes on. But in “secret courts”  called the Family Courts or the Court of Protection in the U.K , where descisions regarding somebody’s welfare are argued about.

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http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Georgia_Tann

Instead of one Georgia Tann, we now have millions globally . They are called Social Services.  CPS. Whatever they are called in different countries over the globe. Who have a vested interest in adoption and the “baby market” for the affluent middle classes. Or  richer than most. God forbid if the person was labelled “feeble- minded” with a slight learning difficulty. Forced Adoption still continues to this day. On a daily basis there are more Georgia Tann’s in disguise. Turns out Christina Crawford was not too happy at the choice of mom she received via Georgia Tann. She wrote a book called Mommy Dearest.  That chronicled her life with the movie star Joan Crawford.

Definition of the word feeble-minded http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/feeble-minded

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http://www.judiciary.gov.uk/about-the-judiciary/judges-magistrates-and-tribunal-judges/list-of-members-of-the-judiciary/circuit-judge-list

Now let us scroll down the list and see who is “bent”. Are we ready people?  Get looking for your Judge !. I personally am not naming any for “legal reasons” . But all for Judges who let Paedophiles off, they will be listed somewhere on this list. Happy hunting !

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/educationnews/8500989/Parents-allow-under-fives-to-watch-unsuitable-TV-shows.html

I can remember when Blue Peter was suitable. It is down to common sense really. I didn’t think it was appropriate my friends kids was watching Eastenders either. I had to cover her eyes in a “scary bit” and hug her. My kids were in bed by the time Eastenders aired or playing with their toys in their bedroom. Kids should be in bed at a certain time . Especially when they have school the next day. My fourteen year old son watches Corrie in his foster home. And that “Stop pimping out our kids”. He told me about this show. My seventeen year old loves EastEastenders.

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/education/educationnews/8504552/Boy-wears-skirt-to-school-in-protest-against-discrimination.html

If a boy is allowed to wear a kilt, then he should be allowed to wear a skirt,  if he so chooses.  It might become a riot if his pals join in. Then where would that leave the school? . I hope he isn’t going to be made fun of though!

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/news/uknews/law-and-order/8506591/Miscarriage-of-justice-ruling-clears-way-for-more-compensation-claims.html

What about the other miscarriage of justices that have occured within the twentieth century.  I can name some more. There was Derek Bentley,  who was hung in 1952 for the murder of a police man ( Sidney Miles. There was Timothy Evans in 1950 who three years later , it transpires that John Reginald Halliday Christie was probably the killer of  the educationally challenged gentleman’s wife Beryl Evans and her daughter Geraldine. Christie was executed at Pentonville Prison in 1953. Many years later Timothy Evans was officially pardoned.

The media had a field day with the Colin Stagg case. He had already been convicted of the murder of Rachel Nickell in 1992. Turns out that Mr Stagg was “set up” by the police through a honey trapper. I copy and paste the links to these stories below.

http://yourarchives.nationalarchives.gov.uk/index.php?title=John_Christie_/_Timothy_Evans_Case

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/List_of_miscarriage_of_justice_cases

http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/standard/article-23605111-colin-stagg-im-still-coming-to-terms-with-being-proved-innocent.do

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http://www.walesonline.co.uk/news/wales-news/2011/05/10/mother-who-strangled-autistic-son-was-caring-for-three-other-disabled-children-91466-28668671/

I understand the “at the end of your tether” with a child with difficulties.  All too well. But I wouldn’t really truly kill my child in a fit of desperation. I know exactly what it is like asking professionals for help and advice. Only to get literally sneered at and told that it was said to me to my face  ”I was a bad mother” really.  Or making it all up for medical attention for myself. PFT!

This is even AFTER my son had been diagnosed with ADHD and Dyspraxia. That incidently I was not actually in the consulting room with the said child’s Paedatrician at the time. You see it transpires now far too late,  that it might actually be hereditary. Yes I understand this woman. But like I already said,  I wouldn’t kill my child. The coping mechanisms should be there ready for any parent from medical agencies. Not left to cope alone.  SHAMEFUL  And if Social Services in Nottingham are reading this blog entry. Yes,  I am referring to you.  Making me look REALLY  bad, when all I did was enquire for “help and advice” . Hmm!

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http://www.thisislondon.co.uk/standard/article-23948436-bouncer-goes-on-trial-over-milly-dowler-murder.do

I knew it,  from the moment he got arrested for other murders,  before he was requestioned by police officers in connection with Amanda ” Milly” Dowler ‘s  tragic death.  Just like I knew that Suzy Lamplugh  in  ( 1986) “disappearance has never been properly solved or her murderer brought to book either. Though the “suspect” is already behind bars for other murders.  Something just did not fit right!

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http://www.thisislocallondon.co.uk/news/9016556.BREAKING_NEWS__Councillor_found_with_94_000_images_and_videos_of_abused_kids_escapes_jail/

Well, it must be okay to courts for paedophiles to view pictures of kids being abused- scarred for life. But god forbid a parent who needs “help” with mental health issues gets a far worst punishment. The chlld to be removed into foster care. See the logics of that?. Oh I’m fuming at this.

This is not a punishment , nor is  it justice for the kids depicted in these videos or images. I think it is because who he is. A person in posistion of power, rather than his crime. There are some sick fuckers around !

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http://www.communitycare.co.uk/Articles/2011/05/10/116781/munro-calls-to-scrap-initial-and-core-assessments.

It is a bit late for the children already taken into foster care and adoption.  On this silly red tape business.  But if the system is going to change to keep families together more often. Then so be it.

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http://www.birminghammail.net/news/birmingham-news/2011/05/09/birmingham-children-s-care-homes-and-the-41million-scandal-97319-28658205/?sms_ss=blogger&at_xt=4dc92418f753ff9e%2C0#ixzz1LweYSwip

I think that the facts speak for themselves. Are children better off in the “care system” with the ever evolving door of new faces get churned together like a factory conveyor belt. Who is profitting from all this. As it is sure as not to be the children.  Social Workers do not pay for the “care” personally out of their own pockets. Oh no! ,  It is the tax payer. People like YOU are paying through the nose. It is the tax payer that pay for social workers out of their council tax. Perhaps if everybody refused to pay council tax for the year. There might be not so many descisions about what is best for the children. Whilst the parent/s are not a part of the descision making process.  Kept in the pitch black dark at ALL times,  according their guidelines.  Until they see fit to maybe inform the parent.

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http://www.bbc.co.uk/news/education-13335150

Mrs Monroe says what we all are thinking. But that will not return the thousands of children already in foster care  and adoption , because of all the  ”red tape” and paranoid fears. What will change is if Mrs Monroe announces that all of the children should be “sent home” again. We are living in a Nazi regime still. It was seventy years ago since World War Two. But the mindsets are unchanged.  That is the truth.

There is way too much paranoia that another Baby Peter scandal will happen. When it’s still happening. In all walks of life. Through educating each other of how these things occur in the first place is driving home to roost of the too much,  ”lets suspect everybody of child abuse. That everything is he/she might ABUSE.  Not that he/she has abused. The climate of fear has turned into a frenzy that just did not exist until recent times.  The Peter Connelly scandal is just another smokescreen,  like all the other deaths and murders in the last twenty years . Since the Cleveland scandal. And probably way before that. It has all been hyped up to fuel social workers, departments and media scrutiny.  Something is very wrong with the “system” as it stands. Something is very wrong with our government .  Something is very wrong with our Judiciary.

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http://www.tottenhamjournal.co.uk/news/man_and_woman_jailed_for_neglecting_10_children_in_haringey_1_885313

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/technology/twitter/8502539/Twitter-shows-the-internet-cannot-be-bound-by-super-injunctions.html

It is perfectly true, the entire internet cannot be controlled.

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http://www.dailytelegraph.com.au/news/breaking-news/hundreds-of-british-police-officers-sacked-at-secret-hearings-investigation-finds/story-e6freuyi-1226052376485

I am not that surprised at this news. Lots of them are “bent”. So it stands to reason they’d be dismissed on the “hush hush”.  Pretty how much any public service can be dismissed. Just like when teachers get sacked.  Lawyers get barred.  Doctors getting struck off.  Social Workers “admonished”. So on and so forth.

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/columnists/christopherbooker/8500531/The-police-hunt-is-on-for-Vicky-Haigh-though-she-is-not-a-missing-person.html

More like the social services have been upstaged AGAIN  and want to know where the “missing baby”  that they are trying to steal,  is going to be safe with his/her mother. But not for their fianancial gains and yet another forced adoption.  Stay safe Vicky and baby.

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http://www.chris-uk.org/life-in-redbank-secure-unit-with-venables-exclusive

Wow, how plush this unit is. Think I’d like to live inside there. Not that I am a criminal,  or ever been one, but it so open plan. Wonder how much this little beauty is costing? A glorified children’s home in reality.

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http://www.kentonline.co.uk/kentonline/news/2011-1/may/5/kcc_let_pervert_foster_child.aspx#comments

I suppose that was equal oppurtunity too?

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3563506/Boy-11-thought-to-be-youngest-child-arrested-for-having-a-gun-by-Scotland-Yard.html

Lawless Britain rides once again.

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http://www.cambridgeshire.gov.uk/childrenyoungpeople/socialcare/lookedafter/schcflacmanual.htm

What a kind donation and minefield of information !

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http://news.sky.com/skynews/Home/UK-News/James-Bulger-Killer-Jon-Venables-To-Be-Given-New-ID-After-Security-Breach-Revealed-Old-Identity/Article/201105115985161?lpos=UK_News_First_Home_Article_Teaser_Region_1&lid=ARTICLE_15985161_James_Bulger_Killer_Jon_Venables_To_Be_Given_New_ID_After_Security_Breach_Revealed_Old_Iden  tity

Why the heck should he be given another new name?. He is the most reviled character in the U.K if not the globe.  Next to Rosemary West, Ian Brady,  Maxine Carr and Ian Huntley. To protect his identity?. His rights? . He must have known that when he was downloading indecent images of children that this was morally and criminally wrong. That that makes him a paedophile.  He blew his chance. He will only “blab” again his true identity to somebody else.  I doubt the home office would seriously release him. Surely not. Not after this. Never mind the do-gooders out there who will say “he was a child, he had a dreadful life”. Tough titty Mr Venables ,or whatever your new identity that you will  be able to hide behind. But of course there is Mary Flora Bell  case of 1968 from Newcastle , echo’s ringing in my ears. How is she doing nowadays, what is she doing?

FOI investigation regarding Family Relations ( NOW IN THE PUBLIC DOMAIN RECORDS )

by Melizza Jayne Moore on Wednesday, May 4, 2011 at 4:01pm

Family Relations FOI investigations

Local Authorities Successful responses.

Leicestershire

http://www.whatdotheyknow.com/request/family_relations_3#comment-18031

North Yorkshire

http://www.whatdotheyknow.com/request/family_relations_39#incoming-171436

Brighton And Hove

http://www.whatdotheyknow.com/request/family_relations_28#incoming-171096

Fife

http://www.whatdotheyknow.com/request/family_relations_33

Rhondda Cynon Taff

http://www.whatdotheyknow.com/request/family_relations_21#incoming-170198

The rest of them  across  all of the Counties in the U.K  , I am waiting for still. Hopefully won’t be long.

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Twenty one months! That is taking the mickey. If people go abducting children for sexual purposes then he is a Paedophile. Plain and simple. It does not matter if the girl looked older than thirteen years of age. Yes indeed , where were her parents?. But on saying that thirteen years do not want to be cooped indoors next to mother or father.

Sonny- ( ANOTHER READER ) what you put there is awful. Thirteen is a CHILD. Though some 13 years appear to quite mature. But they are not savvy to fight off a grown man advances!.

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http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2011/may/04/ian-tomlinson-verdict-inquest-police?intcmp=122

I should hope so too.  Police officers and those in seeming authority are not immune to rightful and fair trial, plus  subsequent prosecution.  Although some they would like to believe that they are. Who feel that they are totally above the law .  Just remember that Dennis Neilsson serial killer  of many young men and boys , was a former policeman in the 1970′s , that  John Reginald Halliday Christie was hung at Pentonville for his repugnant crimes.  (10  Rillington Place)  in the early 1950′s.  Albeit that this gentleman’s death has been so far been unpunished.  I am pleased for his relatives and friends.

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3561598/Asbo-yob-14-gets-free-acupuncture.html

Usually it is the cries of the public screaming “feral child”. The parents get automatically blamed for the children’s unruly behaviour.  In some cases it is down to the parents lack of guidance , disapline and boundary setting.  Have they been “helped” in the right way ? Well that is how social services would put it normally.  But has anybody honestly actually considered that he might have ADHD , ADD or ODD or something related.  Maybe have him assessed by a Psychologist. Just a thought !.

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3561803/Photos-said-to-expose-the-new-identity-of-James-Bulgers-killer-Jon-Venables-are-being-spread-on-the-internet.html

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3559790/McCanns-issue-thank-you-for-not-giving-up-on-daughter-on-fourth-anniversary-of-her-disappearance.html

I am the only person who will say this? . But they shouldn’t have left her home alone then!. Then she wouldn’t be missing .  I’m sure they blame themselves every single day. But if it was any other parent they’d been arrested for wilful neglect. Yes they were on holiday . But they left her and her twin siblings whilst they were sat enjoying dinner with friends out of earshot and eye line.  I am sorry for Madeline and the other kids. Not the parents.  Both of them were middle class professionals. Doctors at that! Child Protection trained to spot abuse etc . Supposed to have known better!

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3559086/Life-and-crimes-of-Osama-Bin-Laden.html

Just because his wife and he are dead, does not mean of the REGIME over there will end. Noooo! There will be another one in waiting. Twice as UGLY as deparated Bin Laden.  But his body “buried” at sea? Oh the irony that sharks and  other aquatic life will be ripping him apart.

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http://www.voice-online.co.uk/content.php?show=19493

RECORD, RECORD, RECORD. There is no law against this. They will try and bluff you. They HATE it. It makes them paranoid as hell. They had a “cow” when they realised we’d recorded all the meetings and contact sessions with our kids.

But what I did, was that even though I have a photographic memory, I wove the “transcript” of what has been said,  If my boys were upset about anything – into my written complaints to social services , then into my court statement , as a litigant in person. Just in case the family court Judge tried to demonstrate that it was “inadmissible” and “entrapment”. I advise more people to audio record meetings, as social workers are reknowned for embellishing the truth. Or even worse false allegations. It’s either the truth  on audio or their twisted interpretations.

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http://www.guardian.co.uk/technology/2011/apr/29/facebook-accused-removing-activists-pages

ONE WORD = CENSORSHIP.

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http://www.independent.co.uk/life-style/health-and-families/health-news/controversial-child-doctor-could-be-struck-off-for-a-second-time-2276844.html

Dangerous man with a god complex.

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http://www.guardian.co.uk/uk/2001/jun/23/bulger.paulkelso?INTCMP=ILCNETTXT3487

BUT DID THEY?  How do we know Robert Thompson has kept his nose clean,  if his identity has been changed? We know that Jon Venables a.k.a Paul Jon Williams is in prison for child pornography. Oh goodness , why does it have to be called this. Innocent children have been sexually abused and raped to feed a market of paedophiles. So therefore it should be known as “being in prison for being a paedophile, looking at indecent pictures of children”. Because only a paedophile gets sexual gratification from looking at children being sexually abused. Is that the right way round now?

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• • Good on Judge Mitchell. I hope that the little girl will be better in the end. That she gets every bit of support. As for her mother if she can be called that- I hope that this will haunt her for the rest of her life. How can a parent think that is ok to beat up her flesh and blood. I hope she DOSEN’T get put on Rule 43 for her own protection. More people that hurt their children should go to jail. HOORAY for common sense from Judge Mitchell.

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http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2003/may/29/childrensservices.uknews

A relatively old article, but it is in the “best interests of the social worker” and her collegues to add a few false allegations.  It is because they know full well that everything they say will get believed. What are a  few false details,  here and there like the correct date of birth of a child. Whether they were actually born. Whether they visited a family when they say they did. The list goes on…….

And it aint down to a “glitch in the system, admin errors”.

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http://www.londonpatriot.org/2011/03/14/babies-and-the-joy-of-sex/

Endorsing inappropriate sexualised behaviours perpetrated by children. A lot of people have the old school attitude that “children will be children”. That it is natural and normal for children to touch other children.  Well by that reckoning , plus this literature it must be okay. Lest us never forget , that poor  little James Bulger suffered from sexual assault before he died,  or those hell boys from Erdlington near Doncaster forced two boys to sexually abuse each other. What is foreseeable is that scores of children,  up and down this country,  if not the entire globe are being introduced via national curriculum to matters of a sexual nature. Why has there been an outcry of outraged parents screaming at Primark’s line of clothing designed for  little girls. Just where do we draw the line?

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http://www.chris-uk.org/jon-venables-aka-paul-jon-williams/34600.

Interesting slant on his name. Paul being a very common popular name, as is Williams. Jon as in his original name. He looks carbon copy the same. Easily recognisable, no cosmetic surgery to disguise his true features,  but akin to a chameleon he  blends into to the unsuspecting public…..Ousted it good and proper. Oh poor Mr Venables hath been rumbled. How the public will pity him. I do not think so! . A scant morsel of justice for James Bulger’s  family I suppose. Not that it will allieviate any suffering they have so far faced. But thank  Goodness for Chris Wittwer.  I might have guessed he’d know these details, that the media will not tell us.

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I seriously am starting to suspect that some people do not understand the risk that they pose.Do these people not realise that by perpetrating this behaviour , questions will be asked. It is no longer nice Mr so and so giving out treats to children.  It is one thing educating your children never to speak to strangers, but most of the time the individual is very well known to them. So  to  accept candy, booze and fags off from somebody they actually know is very scary. As that is known as “grooming”.

But how many young people understand that this is the main modus operandi,  or atypical characteristics of a Paedophile. I can sort of remember girls who were the same age as myself,  or  younger having “boyfriends” who were older. This is now scaring me greatly.  At the time I was worried.  Does this now fall into the category of sexual exploitation.

*** I can remember going up the wall at some strangers openly ,  giving my boys  sweeties who know full well about STRANGER DANGER. Thank goodness they thought to tell me immediately . Though I am sure  now it was quite innocent. But you can never quite be sure. Or the dodgy looking geezer, who was  trying to entice a child known to my sons on the local park after school. It took a split second for my sensors and goosepimpley feeling to be alerted,  so I calmly approachedall of  the children and this geezer with 999 typed ready  into my mobile phone. The geezer soon left the park  , but not before the police had caught up with him in the area with a full description and his “prop” – motorized scooter.

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And that, ladies and gentlemen is the exact problem. You can not SEE somebody else’s thought process. You cannot possibly determine whether a person is going to offend. You can only see questionable behaviour that might seem a bit dodgy. That when you look back at all of the signs put together. You can instantly see it. After it is WAY too late. Gormless officials  have let yet another child down.  Hands are probably wringing  together of ” How can we prevent this again?”.  Read the above of what you have just read, , AGAIN, AGAIN and now AGAIN.  It does make me ponder what these people actually learn whilst in universities.

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My parents believed in “DISIPLINE”. Mostly the hands, slipper or belt. I am still terrified of those things now . But I am more scared of my mother etc yelling at me, calling me very nasty names. Especially the racial slurs, though I am the same skin tone as she…Blaming me for being “badly behaved”.
My foster carers were like that too. It seems that I have grown up with every parental figure, who thinks of nothing more than to inflict abuse.

Well I got my just desserts in the end. I wrote to my former foster carers and described exactly how they made me feel, then sent it to my former social workers, then to the police who will be investigating it all. Not that it should be an issue of who is telling the truth with the silly cow of a foster carer ADMITTING it to my sw in my FILES I have obtained. Then on to my mother who now those of the other “things” that went on for me in foster care. To my stepfathers who know have been called child abusers and my mother standing by and letting it happen and for originally lying to the cops saying she did it.

I just hope my own boys do not be affected too greatly by my extremely low periods. They are now in foster care. Because Social workers think I’m emotionally harming them by being “depressed”. etc.

I just know deep deep down what it is that I have to do.  It feels like there is a higher power propelling me. Or maybe just something within ……..

**** My former social worker advised me to go to the police , then forwarded my correspondance  on to other collegues  in her former workplace  who then in turn  contacted me, who “acknowledge it all”.  I totally broke down with relief.  The first social worker I had,  acknowledged the “painful periods” of my life.  How does it acually feel to be believed after all this time?  Awesome. How do I feel now I have officially reported my foster carers? etc   I will let you know in due course……..

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In the tune of the chant of  the Ricki Lake Show. ” Go John, Go, John”. It’s all over the country, these ludicrous injunctions. Families gagged so they do not  or cannot “speak out” regarding the injustices that are perpetrated behind closed doors. It is not to protect the innocent children etc, but the people who don’t want you to talk. The lawyers, barristers, social workers and CAFCASS.  Because they get protected with immunity. As the children involved  are already known to the community.

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Well , well, well. Haringey Borough Council AGAIN. Home of Mr Trebus starring in LIFE OF CRIME a few years ago, home of two children who died in the same area. Now this. I understand mental illness , even maybe really severe depression, perhaps even sheer laziness , or possibly for want of a better word denial of the circumstances. But leaving a child to STARVE  is  definately the lowest of the low. Children get head lice quite frequently from schoolmates. But it is easily remedied with insecticide lotions and wet combing of the hair. YIKES – poor children. But unbathed children is not on, whatever the circumstances. There is no excuse for not washing a child. No matter what poverty they may claim to state. Even kettle water  and cool tap water in the  kitchen sink. But on saying that we only have the authoritarian people version. Not her own .  But the house itself indicates all of what I have described above . And just WHERE were Adult Social Care to assess her efficiently?. Will her children ever be returned to her? Or perhaps a family member!. Are the pictures that have shown,  enough to make her change her ways.

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http://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-1378541/Heart-breaking-court-battle-foster-parent-launch-11th-hour-bid-halt-adoption-young-children.html

These are not toys ,but children with real feelings. I am disgusted that how these children actually feel has not been looked at. They have had a bond with their carers all of their lives . Now they might be ripped away to another set of carers. What about the birth parents who have now been thrown away. Or in other words their parental consent ripped away from them. In this instance I would state that the children should stay where they know and love to be their actual home. Let common sense prevail. And not the rattle of coinage and thick notes.

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Now why do I get the distinct impression that the Judiciary et al are getting a wee bit paranoid? I think that there are those who might like to keep all reined in still to keep it all hush. Now we surely cannot have that, can we the general public?

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selfish twat. RULE 101, never leave a child same way alone in the bath tub, it takes seconds and a few inches of water to lose a precious life.

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Restraining techniques by adults to a child called therapy, gushy BBC show and a tantalising insight regarding becoming a potential adopter.  Hope that it really works out for the girl. And that she is happy.

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All through my childhood I had this image that would not leave me. Though I was in foster care . I saw flashbacks of my mother and father. Whilst I was in foster care approximately age fourteen “my dad” returned. Just like that. He wanted visitation and access. All this sounds fine and all that. At around the same time there was a descision to be DNA tested. I was so so excited. This was it. I would find out for definate if he was my true true dad. I remember sitting with him waiting to be blood tested feeling all cosy warm. At last a link of my real family had come to “take me home” or near enough. Twelve weeks later and a phone call plunged my world into darkness. It was not “dad” ringing. It was his wife. I only needed to hear the first few seconds as I replaced the handset on the ajoining phone line……

No more surreal visits, cosy time with the siblings I loved to see. The feeling of wholeness and belongingness. Bit by bit they became a mirage. Until……….

This morning a message in my facebook inbox from a man I loved calling “Daddy”. I think that this is very cryptic of what I am trying to convey.

 

thank you. You were once my dad – dearest stepfather. But thank you for your message. It has been a long time since I saw you innit. Lots of flashbacks and stuff of being abused by people from when I was little. Not just being hit either.I saw the NSPCC notes too. Even a police investigation .But I got the wrong man …Even my mother agrees something happened when I was very tiny And the psychiatrist and ss confirmed it all.Yes I remember you telling my mother was mental on their visit to June and John’s . You should see the letter I wrote them recently disowning them LOL

I still got some pictures of you all. i have had lots and lots and lots of therapy (hypnosis- psychotherapy has been taken place. ) Do you know why J, W or M barely speak to me?. I see ( D his  ex wife ) sometimes in town. It is quite saddening as I seem to have no brother or sister it feels. I know I seemed mental back then, but  June and John were abusive to me and I was all over the place. Have you got any pictures of me with J and W from when I was before five.
Liza
P.S I read my social services file with EVERYTHING in it. I saw the letter from your then solicitor re custody of when I was in care.

Yesterday was my thirty sixth birthday. It is like both of  my parents who I knew to my parents contacted me yesterday. It is almost like wow. I knew she would not forget to text me happy birthday…..My mother read the whole of the “truth” of what I wrote. And what I know has to be done.. I need to tell them how they both have made me feel. Like that one sentence on one of my blog entries that says that I wished my real mother or father would come to rescue me away from the horrors of my foster home. But I won’t hold my breath. But this could be MY YEAR.

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Tut tut, your honour, being sloshed on the job. There is an expression that people use. Remember it. “Sober as a Judge”. Perhaps MOST Judges are secretly sloshed on the job. Can’t be easy being Judge, they’d need to spend crucial money on summat whilst in between hearings.

I say this with a sarcastic demeanour of course. But how more judges are proven to be bent, because of their outdated old fogey selves. And stupidness. No wonder why there is so many paedophiles and rapists walking about still.

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So pleased for Kerry, Mark , Baby Ben Mc Dougall and their new baby coming. Love ya.

Melizza

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I told you so, its all that PAPER trail that they have to read through.

 

how many cases per week, have identical phraseology, circumstances do the lawyers have to wade through. Maybe even the same set of social workers, team managers and Cafcass officials. Same set of “learned friends”/collegues.

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Ok, for each care proceedings which is approximatley £400.000 plus, there is approximately 500-1000 pieces of paper to read. The Judge LISTENS to what is said in court by the LAWYERS who have thrashed out a deal, all getting paid are they not. How many cases does a Judge hear in one week?. Thats a heckload of reading! i.e they probably SKIP or not read at all.

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http://www.bbc.co.uk/iplayer/episode/b0102rmm/Neil_Morrissey_Care_Home_Kid_Episode_2/

I identified with everything that Neil Morrissey and the others said and felt. Maybe it is high time that all social services department took heed and listened to care survivors for negative and positive feedback.

If a person has these feelings, why is it quickly labelled by psychiatrists as a form of mental illness. When quite clearly it is not. Especially if abuse has taken place within that establishment. Why are so individuals labelled as “Damaged” through things that have really happened to them.  When the support mechanisms that are desperatly needed are not even offered or subsequently taken away with no real explanation. Yet the establishment use that much bandied around phrase”  In the best interests of the child”.  IS IT REALLY?

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Sent to my former social worker. Mrs Humphreys . I am very pleased that you have received International Status of your organisation BUT……..

UNEDITED LETTER TO MY FORMER FOSTER PARENTS.
Dear June and John.
I recieved your Christmas Card and hand written letter. Thankyou. I no longer really celebrate this event for obvious reasons. I am writing you this email because I need to tell you something. I know you will probably not like this, but I have to be truthful and honest. I no longer wish to have communication with you from this point onwards. The reasons for this is that is has been thirty years now since I first came to live at your “home”. I was five, in need of a “loving family” to take care of me. But what I found was the exact opposite. I know you’ll probably dumbstruck and possibly angry that I am saying this. I remember that you always used to be awestruck that I had a sort of photographic memory. I will now guide you through these memories to see if you can remember what I remember.
Within days ( according to Nottinghamshire County Council Social Services records) I had been hit. This was admitted to Margaret Humphrey’s who was “concerned”. For a very long time I have been scared of you both. But couldn’t fathom WHY. I remember that I was always in the wrong and too blame for everything that ever took place. You two were the adults and we were the children. You were in control and you had the power. I don’t think you can truly imagine the impact at sometimes your violent and sometimes abusive behaviour was like for a small child, already “traumatised” from the beatings and “emotional deprivation that I was already subjected too. I say violent and abusive as I remember the look on your faces as you yelled at me contantly it seemed. Nobody else got yelled at. I wasn’t the child that was
1. A liar2. Attention seeking liar3. Made things up for attention4. Dirty5. Slutty6. Loose7. Behaving like a prostitute.
I know know that it was you June who nagged a social worker to tell me that m,y mother was a prostitute in a contact session. Do you realise the impact of this news?. I would like to know what was to be gained by making me believe I was all of the above, so much I lived up to the self fulfilling prophecy. Living in your house , looking in on a pheriferall level, as that “odd child” who could never do right. Do’nt bother denying this, as I have seen EVERYTHING in those records and my psychiatric records. All the meetings that you attended. The minutes to them. What you said about me was outrageous. No I wasn’t like “your family”. The memories that I have of you are not good.
1. Forcing me to go topless on a beach in France aged eleven years. I felt humilated and on show from all the adults. Potential paedophiles. I was “developed” with breasts, but you didn’t think how I felt parading myself like that.2. At aged twelve or thirteen after an argument /facing off , in which I thought that I was going to be killed, you never ever said sorry.3. I know you lied to ss about your eldest son Mark being abusive to me and Ruth in particular. There is no mention of the attack of Mark physically hurting me ever. I remember one evening that I went to guides covered in reddened marks on my arms of chinese burns. So much so other girls commented on it. And I was too terrified to tell them who did this.4. When there was an allegation of sexual abuse by my music teacher at school, you called me an “attention seeking liar” and covered it up away from Social Services. I wonder what they’d make to a paedophile teacher running amok in a girls school, they’d placed me in.5. Mark- your son was oober scary. His hands terrified me for some reason. Especially at night- in the dark . France 1986- Euro camping tent. I was never mortifyingly afraid of Neil. Never Neil; but Mark and you.6. Another child witnessed your abuse to me too and wondered why I was always so “sad, and withdrawn”.7. I remember the sore genitalia I had. UNKNOWN as the cause, but you accused me of “touching myself”. Not once did you say “hey Lisa , I will take you to the G.P and get you checked out”. But one evening you forced me to show you my private parts and “examined” me. I didn’t want another female to touch me. I was a late teen and I felt humilated. You threatened to “get dad” if I didn’t show you my sore area.8. For years regarding my bad coughs and very interupted sleep, not until I had an asthma attack after an athletics meeting , did you take me to the G.P. I remember how you you’d say I was inventing things for “attention”9. When I was about 12 or thirteen, I was slapped across the cheek, but it hit my nose instead. I fell to the floor in shock and pain and had a nose bleed. That makes you no better than Ronnie Hodge in reality. Where did that note written to Jean Thorpe go to, that was hidden in my drawer detailing my fears. No it’s okay I told her anyway. But I still stayed in your house didn’t I?.
10. You made me look like I am “crackers”, had me shipped off to blinking shrink. That is very convienant that I was seen as the “disturbed child”. When it was Mark that was the bully. It kind of set a bench mark for the rest of my life. Labelled as a crazy loonytune since I was eleven because YOU COULDN’T COPE. That is why my own children have been removed because SS know my history from my files and still wish to label me. I think experiencing the tense atmosphere in your house would make anybody a tad unstable.
11. Siting on my bed JOHN , refusing to budge and watching me undress , made me feel you were gonna do summat to me. “you let other boys see it” was your reply when I told you to get out of the room.
There are many other memories that I have, but these are the main reasons why I do not wish to see you again ever, as I don’t want to be a prisoner to those memories, though I’m certain that you will state I’m stll “damaged” and imagining it all as you always said. I need to get on with my life and not be afraid to finally standing up to you, as I am no longer a child.

Melizza-Jayne Moore ( a.k.a Liza).

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http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2011/feb/03/domestic-violence-children-danger-fathers?INTCMP=ILCNETTXT3487

 

So why take the kid off the mother, if you know it is the father doing the violence. Sort out the justice system for the sake of the family unit . As that is not sorting out the problem. The problem is the anger/aggression that may  lead to the violence . No child should have to witness violent altercations as it is very very scary.

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http://www.guardian.co.uk/tv-and-radio/2011/mar/28/tv-review-neil-morrissey-care

At least that he is honest. “Care “has not changed very much. Apart from new laws of what is allowed and what is not allowed and feeling very alone even if you are surrounded by other people. Some people may have enjoyed being in care, but there are many many others that did not.

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http://www.thesun.co.uk/sol/homepage/news/3494359/Cops-charge-149-after-protest-against-cuts-turns-ugly.html

Glad I was not in attendance in a way.  Some disturbing scenes of violence.

 

http://www.guardian.co.uk/world/video/2011/mar/27/tuc-protests-march-for-the-alternative-london

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http://www.communitycare.co.uk/blogs/social-work-front-line-focus/2010/02/violence-a-survival-guide-for-social-workers.html

LMAO,

what about protection for the families from social workers. Tell ing somebody you find them a crap family etc might make a person be a bit verbal. Having a “stranger” snoop through your life, asking dead personal questions, checking up on you for anything you MIGHT do , without being told that it may be deemed wrong, can leave even the sanest person a tad paranoid. I think all social workers, team leaders definateley CAFCASS, should do role reversal scenarios in their training. Just a wee idea.

It is all very well protecting the social workers from “. harm”. But the image/title of social worker conjurs up negative images of people who take away kids from families. And what is seen as abusive to one person is possibly a person getting upset by the mere presence of one. The perception has to be changed most importantly, if it is genuinely that children need help or protection. If a person is “labelled” to be dangerous or whatever, shouldn’t there be a proper assessment of the adults needs to by referring them to Adult Social Care and other mental health services. It might be possible that they would never hurt a child. Just in need themselves.

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Margaret, do you remember me, it is Liza . My mum was called Marie and you said some not very nice things to me, that I now know are lies. I have seen and read my social services files. Especially the part where you wrote about you concerns about me being hit by my foster parents. Why did you leave me there, when you knew that I was scared.

In her own words too. Wonder if she remembers me. She should do, we lived in the same little place and her daughter went to my school. Pity I am shitlisted off DM, or I would write her a COMMENT. A not very nice one of my memories of her LIES.

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That’s it. Forty eight sessions of the most intense counselling has been undertaken. On my own volition. Not forced. But when I was ready. It was almost a lifetime away that I entered through that door years ago preparing myself for that feeling of dread. But in my fear of what I had to undertake I fled. That pink settee was a goal post. I have finally done it. I faced to up to every harrowing event in my life. It was not just about Rape, but the emotions that I have expertly concealed behind the facade of “happy bubbly woman”. It is only a mask to avoid what the truth is.

I was fourteen years of age, already known as being sexually promisicuious by authority. But there was next to no explanation as to why this was the case. Well, certainly not to me. I was just the loose girl who flaunted her body. Behaving like a sex worker. So in my vulnerability I got my just desserts in a way. I was twelve years old when the boy who did this. I am now going to name him Christian Owen, who was the same age as myself, started wanting to “play with me”. At first it was fumblings in his dens we made. But his need to control me into groping me and be violent superceeded any moral expectations that I was lectured about. I had no respect for my body anyway and I didn’t know why. But this was becoming an abusive situation, so I guess I just switched off. He used to be physically aggressive to me, then the threats came. Then came the pressurising me into intercourse.

It seemed like it was all a secret. Nobody knew what was going on, because I was too scared to tell anybody. I was well used to getting the blame for my behaviour. So was I supposed to utter this. My behaviour has been described as “disruptive”, problematic. Who was gonna believe my version of events. That I was being forced to submit to his demands. I doubt anybody would have believed that there was such a thing as teenage domestic violence. I remember complaining to my Psychiatrist about his treatment. But she didn’t go out of her way to notify anybody of what was being done to me. I just figured no one believed me. It seemed that Christian had this “hold” of me. There were occasions that he pressurised me into intercourse even when I was menstruating. He didn’t use protection much. He just put a plastic bag over his penis and had sex with me despite my saying no to him.

There were a few occasions that spring to mind of his tactics and his “mate” David was present. That did not bother him. They both pinned me to the floor and he raped me, then David started sexually assaulting me. They both thought it was hilarious that I was pinned down and humiliated. I was just “meat” lying there. Another time he forced  me to get off with another boy, then beat me up forcing me to return to my foster home with a thick lip and bewildered. I just said that I had bumped my lip. I only would have got the blame and being presumed that I had brought it on myself by being there. But the truth is I was so desperate for love and any kind of affection I believed that he would turn into a nice boy who really loved me and was not horrible to me.

I have now decided to sort of cut ties with my foster family as they are one of the major  causes of my low periods. The words and actions of them now leaves me cold. They are not my family. They never were. I have stayed in contact with their adopted daughter this last twenty years but now I realise by doing this, I am not actually moving forward in my life where I want to be. Their recollection of me as a child is of disappointment and resentment. I have seen the documents. They told their daughter that if they knew in the first instance that I had been sexually abused before living with them, they would never have took me on.  But that I know is an excuse to deny that they were not the best people for me. Because they are selfish and very harsh to a child like me. As well as the threats of physical violence and the actual slappings of both of them. I held fear in my heart of both of them and their eldest son .That was the final rejection. I could in fact stay furious forever. But my power is the truth.

 

I have now tracked down my birth father and had a conversation with him. That makes me feel good. For as a kid I just wanted my “real parents” to rescue me somehow. I can remember sitting alone thinking about the lyrics of “maybe” from Annie. And wishing my mother or father would appear.

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So who indeed looks after these children then?

 

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this is a very good video. I would like to share this though if I may. There is a P.D clinic in Nottinghamshire that assessed me ( incidentally in the middle of C.P) who stated that I HAD A and B clusters of Personality Disorders. It is now I realise that this is not accurate as at the time MY PAST had come back to haunt me in the guise of a “boy” I was seeing at the time of great mental distress. This was 15 years later I was in contact with him. The problem was he had B.P.D and he was “dragging me down” into his abyss. So it appeared that I also had B.P.D.

Since then, I have got “rid “of him, and got intense counselling for my own trauma’s in childhood. I returned back to the clinic here to re-do group therapy. And it transpires that P.D ‘s are only mere labels for a set of inner trauma.This clinic now states after my kids taken, that I was never ever actually officially diagnosed with any P.D. That I only possess the traits, that EVERYBODY on this planet has.

But I don’t think the kids social worker would like to admit she oversaw my C.P.N saying this to her, when I asked for “graded exposure” etc, in effect that I was not intentionally being anti-social in front of such like people. That I was actually suffering extreme anxiety and panic attacks arising from “phobia” of my treatment as a little girl from them

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=FZg1IYoxvNo&feature=fvw PART TWO

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uAAVjvTaRNU&feature=related PART THREE

CHILD OF RAGE TRAILER-THE MOVIE.

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@ the troll CARTIMANDUA Answer this please and enlighten us all including Mr Booker

” unless FRAUD and DECEPTION is used. Not that Judges care sitting on a daily salary of £2000 an hour, barristers £700 an hour, solicitors £400-£500 an hour in court. I second what the comments say after the article. The social workers when I was a kid were “smiley twisted demons”.I could always sense there was summat about them even as a five year old.But THEY did naff all to alleviate emotional suffering or actual suffering inflicted by ANYBODY. This includes my former shrink who undertook “deep relaxation therapy” at aged seventeen. She knew full well what it would do, as did the social workers. She stated she didn’t want to do this, but she was “forced”. I am still suffering the effects of it now. Aged thirty-five. An assault of the mind. “Best interests of the child” to wreck their head forever. PAH”

In who’s best interest Mrs mental health “expert” or whatever you claim to be today was this then, ca it sure as bat s**t hell mine.

AT THE TROLL ON THE TELEGRAPH.

And I’m sure there is a diagnostic category of EVEN the flatulence you seem to recycle the same horse dung each and every article there is about SS. Why must there be ALWAYS psychologically wrong with a parent, that quantifies labelling them into a little neat box.
Who gives a rats ass if a person might be a little bit depressed in the first instance. It’s called life. It shouldn’t be a tool to remove children. Check the word stereotyping and predudice in your OXFORD dictionary before slamming the door from that stable. The words STUCK and RECORD spring to mind.

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I have just been thinking, perhaps a little candidly about how my life has been shaped. I have now reached the conclusion that everything has been controlled by other people. From the age of five years of age on entering the “care system” if one can describe it as that. Descisions have been made of my wellbeing that have impacted upon my life. Of where I can go to school, where I live. Who I communicate with. Hobbies and interests have all been dictated by social services. All mandated and governed by them. Of course my foster carers have made descisions such as where we go on holiday, where and what I eat. When it’s time for bed. But all in all, descisions were made. But nobody asked me what I wanted.

My answer would have been “let me go home to my mother and family”. Stop stopping me see my mother, why are you so cruel and calculating to me”. Nobody thought to as me how I was feeling. Just bundle me in a car every so often and tell me I’m going to see my mother. For a little while. To see my little brother and sister, play with my sister’s hair for an hour or two. Then bundle me back into the car back to unhappiness. Back to an austere house of being left out. Not part of that family really. The outsider watching from the fringes.  I really look on my life in a mysterious air. Things that did not make sense at the time. Without the documents, without the knowledge of evidence.

I see this as really wierd that I find out this out now, when I retrieve the documentation from years ago. I can remember when I was thirteen years old, in a contact session my mother blurted out that she was a sex worker. My first thoughts were why is she saying these things. Does that mean I am one, because I let boys do things to me. I did those things with the feeling of duress attatched, that if I did not submit my body- that they would hurt me really badly. It was almost like I could predict human nature of what might happen next if I didn’t.  Was it because she hurt me. But I now find out it was actually my foster mother who nagged social workers to tell me the truth. It wrecked my head knowing this information. IN A CONTACT SESSION no least.

My relationships with people are of wary acceptance, as I am constantly on the “watch” for abusive people. Those who hurt physically or mentally. When I started off having mega flashbacks of sex assault by other persons on and off and even more so  at seventeen years of age. It brought it all back of being accused of being “delusions” or being a liar etc.  It was the social worker and my shrink that said that I things that needed to come out of my psyche from before I entered the care system. Deep relaxation therapy they called it. Others call it hypnosis. The disclosures that flew out of my mouth that were left suppressed as it was too deep rooted. But there in the background lurking like a faceless demon.  I shudder at memory.  Joining up all the dots is crucial as it explains everthing about my former life.

unless FRAUD and DECEPTION is used. Not that Judges care sitting on a daily salary of £2000 an hour, barristers £700 an hour, solicitors £400-£500 an hour in court. I second what the comments say after the article. The social workers when I was a kid were “smiley twisted demons”.I could always sense there was summat about them even as a five year old.But THEY did naff all to alleviate emotional suffering or actual suffering inflicted by ANYBODY. This includes my former shrink who undertook “deep relaxation therapy” at aged seventeen. She knew full well what it would do, as did the social workers. She stated she didn’t want to do this, but she was “forced”. I am still suffering the effects of it now. Aged thirty-five. An assault of the mind. “Best interests of the child” to wreck their head forever. PAH

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The problem is, is that social services departments across the U.K do not want to be seen as admitting fault in this. If you look at it logically ,two former care leavers went on to commit the most appalling crime. If they had done their research properly maybe Tracey Connelly might have gone down the road she took. It is clear that Peter was in danger. Never mind file sharing of professionals, as they are not there 24/7. There are other people who knew/saw what was happening. I’m not saying that all the professionals are to blame.But something was drastically wrong. The witness who stated she was too “afraid” to speak out. And what about the feelings of the siblings of Peter. Has anybody asked them?. Does anybody think how they must be feeling having there baby brother as a “poster campaign” as the face of child abuse, until an equally shocking event happen. Coz everytime such a death happens, the ss crack down harder on everybody else.

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I am still left wondering, that now I have spoken out publically and swallowed my fear of even writing about it here on facebook , where the innocent parties who were children at the time witnessing it, or might have had a inkling summat was very wrong, about how mean my experiences in care were, will the social workers involved who all individually documented their concerns be held accountable. The innocent parties I describe is the children of the carers. I fear they will call me a liar if they ever read all my comments. I think they are truly “brainwashed”.

As when I spoke out about the sexual abuse, rapes, emotional abuse that took place. I was in effect made to look a liar by other professionals.Made to look like I am “crazy” and used against me as a “battering ram” as my former solicitor eloquently put it. It is my experience that they cover up the truth , thus transfering it onto the individual concerned in SO many cases. I have nothing to lose now really.

 

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Well how to do you like that. And we were all made to think she was this wonderful compassionate little old lady. Oh deary me. What else next hey?. Institutionalised abuse- the hidden stigma lurking under the carpets of secrecy. Tut tut. It’s all emerging now isn’t it?

Stunner! Kinsey paid my father to rape me

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FREE News Alerts WND Directory WND Superstore Page 1 News Page 2 News WND Local News Commentary WND Money Diversions WND TV/Radio Whistleblower WorldNetWeekly G2 Bulletin Red Alert WND Poll WND Forums Petitions Letters to the Editor Joke of the Day WND.Comics SportsNetDaily TV Guide Movieguide Weather WND Resources About WND WND Scoops Who Reads Us WND Books Advertise with WND WND RSS feeds MOBILE.WND News Alerts Sign Up Donate to WND US Newspapers Foreign Newspapers Major News Wires Other News Services Other Sites Writers Archives Government Officials Search Engines Media Entertainment Job Bank WND People Contact WND Who’s Who at WND Customer Service Speakers and Talk Show Guests Commentators		SEXUAL SABOTAGE Subject of 1940s ‘research’ goes public with horrific details of abuse by dad Posted: October 17, 2010 7:42 pm Eastern By Brian Fitzpatrick © 2010 WorldNetDaily       Editor’s note: The following report is part of WND’s ongoing, multipart investigation into alleged crimes committed by sex-researchpioneer Alfred Kinsey and his Kinsey Institute. WASHINGTON – A victim of sexologist Alfred Kinsey’s “research” during the 1940s is coming forward with the stunning claim that her father was paid by Kinsey, universally regarded as the “father of the sexual revolution,” to rape her and then report to him on the attacks. Nearly 70 years after being molested repeatedly by her own father, “Esther White” (a pseudonym) is speaking out in hope of prompting Congress to investigate the controversial research. White said she would be willing to testify in person on Capitol Hill if an investigation results in opening the Kinsey Institute files to public scrutiny. “He was giving me orgasms and timing it with a stopwatch,” White told WND. “I didn’t like it, I went into convulsions, but he didn’t care. He said all little girls do this with their daddies, they just don’t talk about it.” White was 7 when her father began abusing her. “There’s no question that Kinsey broke a number of laws and conspired to break a number of laws to conduct his faux research,” said Matt Barber, a law professor and associate dean at the Liberty University School of Law. Kinsey’s 1948 and 1953 books on human sexual behavior contain tables of information about sexual responses in children as young as 2 months old. Several tables record how long the children needed to be stimulated to achieve “orgasm,” and others record how many orgasms the children achieved in given periods of time.   Esther White’s data would have been used for this table in Kinsey’s first book, though the book focused on male sexual behavior   “Kinsey was not a legitimate scholar. He was not objective,” said Janice Crouse, Ph.D., the head of the Beverly LaHaye Institute, the think tank at Concerned Women for America. “Instead, he found people who could produce the results he wanted. … He was very interestedin changing the sexual mores. … He believed any sex act between consenting adults and even children was acceptable, even healthy.”  Kinsey and his researchers are widely credited with having redefined sexual morality in America.   “Esther White”   White said Kinsey “enticed” her grandfather, who became a personal friend of Kinsey while studying at Indiana University, to participate in the research, and that her grandfather in turn recruited  two of his sons to molest their own daughters for Kinsey. She described Kinsey as “insane,” “evil” and “Satan incarnate.” White says her father and grandfather were paid by Kinsey and that Kinsey was aware of what her father was doing to her. She recalls that her father filmed some of those sessions and sent the home movies to Kinsey. She also witnessed Kinsey handing her grandfather a check. “In 1943, when I was nine,” White told WND, “I found a sheet of paper that had boxes on it and my father was checking off things he was doing to me. He grabbed it away from me and put it in a brown envelope. “It was a form with little boxes down the left side of the page, and a list of statements describing sexual acts. He was supposed to check things off, whether he did that or not. “One of the statements included the words ‘timed orgasm.’ I didn’t know what ‘orgasm’ meant, so I asked him and he told me. That’s why he was using a stopwatch.   Esther White’s data would also have appeared in this table from Kinsey’s 1953 book on female sexual behavior   “My dad took movies of what he did to me. They were home movies, the camera was one of those wind-up types. … I think he sent them to Kinsey. “Kinsey did interview me, he asked me some questions, things like whether I loved my family. My father had told me what I needed to say to him, we wanted to make a good impression. I found out later we had to make a good impression because we were getting paid for this. “Esther White” at age 9   “When Kinsey was about to leave, my grandfather said, ‘What about the check?’ Kinsey said, ‘I almost forgot,’ and I saw him give my grandfather a check. Kinsey said ‘I made it out to both of you because I didn’t know which one was going to get the money.’ That was in the winter of 1943.” Researcher Judith Reisman, Ph.D., began raising questions about how Kinsey collected the data in 1981. Since then, the Indiana University-based Kinsey Institute for Research in Sex, Gender, and Reproduction has continually denied that Kinsey recruited child molesters to conduct ongoing research.   “Kinsey was not a pedophile in any shape or form. He did not carry out experiments on children; he did not hire, collaborate, or persuade people to carry out experiments on children,” according to an early 1990s documentcurrently cited on the Kinsey website in a section titled,“Allegations about Childhood data in the 1948 book, ‘Sexual Behavior in the Human Male.’” “Kinsey never carried out experiments on the sexual responses of children or employed or trained anyone else to do so for him,” wrote former Institute director John Bancroft, M.D., in a 2005 article, “Alfred Kinsey’s work 50 years on,” currently available on the Kinsey Institute website. At least one former Kinsey Institute director, however, departed from this line, according to Barber. Kinsey’s successor, Paul Gebhard, Ph.D., assumed the leadership of the Kinsey Institute when Kinsey died, and ran the organization from 1956 to 1982. “Kinsey’s colleague, Gebhard, acknowledged they were coordinating with nursery school directors and operators and parents and grandparents of these kids to obtain the so-calledresearch,” Barber told WND. “He admitted they knowingly were collaborating with these people as they molested the children, and were making use of the fruit of the poisonous tree in Kinsey’s research. “There’s pre-Kinsey and post-Kinsey,” Barber continued. “Unfortunately we live in a post-Kinsey world and have suffered as a culture tremendously for it … the U.S. Supreme Court has cited Kinsey’s research in Romer, Lawrence v Texas, and other decisions having to do with sexual orientation. Those decisions were made based on fraudulent information from Alfred Kinsey and his brood of perverts.” Kinsey’s research findings have been used to change laws regarding sex around the world. Crouse told WND people today “think he’s the research guru who knew everything about sex. “Only a handful of academics understand how fraudulent he was,” she said. “He had very limited sampling, he did not follow the correct academic procedure for having legitimate samples. He used an extraordinary amount of personal stories about sexual behavior. He was a pseudo-scientist, a fraud, though his work is still cited in academia. (Story continues below)     “People don’t realize the people in Kinsey’s studies were not normal, average Americans. They were prostitutes, criminals, the only folks willing to be involved in such slimy research. It was not legitimate research at all. It has been one of the biggest hoaxes perpetrated against the American people in our history.” White compared Kinsey’s research to the U.S. government’s 1940s syphilis research in Guatemala, which elicited a flood of Obama administration apologies on Oct. 1. “I think the experimentation done with government funding is an ongoing issue,” White told WND. “That’s what was going on with Kinsey. Scientific experimentation. They didn’t care about people, they cared about statistics. I was a statistic just like those people in Guatemala were.” Reisman pointed out that the U.S. government apologized for what it did in Guatemala, “but that was all over long ago.” “This was all done in the United States and still is being used to gut our laws and destroy our morality,” she said. “He is still the father of the sexual revolution and all that flows from it. And poor ‘Esther’ just stands there and says ‘What about me, what about all the people this was done to?’” Robert Knight, director of a 1995 documentary, “The Children of Table 34,” which addressed the Kinsey controversy, said Esther’s testimony “scratches the surface of one of the 20th Century’s greatest and most enduring scandals.” “Millions have been hurt by the false view of sexuality hatched in criminal fashion by Alfred Kinsey and his associates,” Knight said. “If Esther’s story and that of other victims was widely known, the Kinsey castle would come crashing down, bringing with it a sex education establishment dedicated to raping children’s innocence, plying them with condoms and pushing them toward either the abortion clinic or a gay bar.” Reisman noted that the lead expert witness in the lawsuit challenging California’s pro-traditional marriage Proposition 8 initiative cited Kinsey. “It’s like quoting Mengele for medical expertise, and everybody just accepts it,” Reisman said. “The Kinsey Institute just published a new study about children’s orgasms, and everybody just accepts it. I feel like I’m in ‘Alice in Wonderland.’” Knight said the Kinsey researchers “were aiding and abetting child molestation.” “Their hands are dirty and they need to be exposed,” said Knight, currently a senior writer for Coral Ridge Ministries. “It’s so bad, they can’t admit to it. It’s crushing. So the charade goes on.” Reisman told WND the Kinsey Institute is so afraid of being sued by the victims of the Kinsey research, it has repeatedly threatened to destroy its files if brought to court. Today’s related story: Victim of notorious sex experiments speaks out Members of the media who wish to interview the reporter, Brian Fitzpatrick, or Dr. Judith Reisman, who has written books about Kinsey, please e-mail WND. Related special offers: Find out who launched the sexual ‘devolution,’ and opened the door to the abyss “Kinsey: Crimes & Consequences” “The Kinsey Syndrome” Get the new “Marketing of Evil” audiobook on 4 CDs now “The Marketing of Evil: How Radicals, Elitists, and Pseudo-Experts Sell Us Corruption Disguised as Freedom”   Previous stories: Sears: Where America shops for spectacular nudity Parents challenged to test Web savvy College students urged: Trade Bible for Playboy ‘Safe schools’ chief recommends child porn for classroom reading Porn-defending lawyer leaving Justice Department ‘Czar’ sees transgender school goals in reach ‘Safe schools’ chief recommends child porn for classroom reading Porn publisher asked Jennings for help Porn practitioners promoted to children? Catholic League: Why does Obama like ‘Christian basher’ Obama’s safe-schools boss sponsors radical porn

 

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Why is it acceptable for “professionals” to act in this manner, when C.P.S and social services are quick to point the finger at parents of “risk of emotional abuse/harm. It works both ways. The poor child in this segment might be scarred for life from his “therapy”.

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Hello my name is Melizza.

I am writing to express my disgust at the removal of three names that have been removed from the above event. These names are Bill Maloney, Chris Wittwer and Robert Green. I have met all three gentlemen. I can assure you that they are amazing men. These men are true iconic figures in the world of the fight against Child Abuse.

Twenty years ago, at aged fourteen I was a victim of rape. I was in local authority care. A better place for me some professionals might state. Also in foster care within a foster family ,I was also the victim of sexual abuses by other persons. Emotional and Physical abuse. I rang Childline ,as I thought that by ringing Ester Rantzen”s helpline would stop all the nasty things. It took four weeks to get answered by which time I was a shivering wreck. Do you know what they told me on the phone call? Tell your parents, your teacher, priest, doctor. The only problem with that one was I DID. Nobody believed me until NOW. Aged thirty five I can talk about it.

Esther Rantzen is the patron and beacon that symbolises “ending Child Abuse”of other organisations. NAPAC. NSPCC, CHILDLINE. All in conjunction with Social Services I discover, who didn’t help children like me one iota. Does Mrs Rantzen feel threatened that there are other people well known for getting the “child’s voice heard”. I don’t remember Mrs Rantzen standing in the rain at the Rally in August in London, giving hope to thousands of children and survivors alike all teaming up together in unity.

I am appalled at her attitude. How could she- how dare she?. To do this, makes it look bad for her. Dare I SUGGEST ALMOST “COMPLICIT” in keeping the Status Quo alive of the hidden survivors of Child Abuse, in silent bonds and gagged, like Mr Jack Straw likes it to be. Are the bonds of humanity to hard to break?. Little old ladies and Gentlemen being helped by carers, have had their life, WHAT ABOUT THE CHILDREN?

No longer the victim, but a survivor of Child Abuse etc

Melizza Moore in Notts.

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Go Freedom Advocacy and Law, Go go go. WOW and treble WOW.

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PRESSURE GROUP- My shiny backside. www.freedomlaw.co.uk is a registered company dedicated in matters of law. They just happen to be doing a class action. Publicity is good if it is correct and makes other unfortunate families out there aware that they can also join this class action.

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I am writing to ask if you could tell Samantha Morton that I am so so proud of all her success. I met her in 1993 as a seventeen year old in the “homeless hostel”. I know the real address of this place as we lived in the same house. She might remember me. She had just moved into this place and she wanted advice where to buy a certain item of furniture. She would know what this was. I remember tittering out loud that she wanted this item. On the walls of her room I remember there were Monet pictures. Ever since that day. I loved Monet as it was Samantha who introduced me to it.

I now regret telling her “no kid in care makes it to Hollywood, don’t be daft our Sam”. I want to thank her from the bottom of my heart for that spine tingling film she directed. The UNLOVED. I remember saying to my husband that night “Only Sam could have really written and directed it from a real aspect”. As I found it awe inspiring and as it exactly is/was. Not whitewashed. And I loved the scene where in the background was the actual building we care leavers lived in. Very very clever that was. I have wanted to write for many years now, but I am compelled to write now. I just saw the BBC Kids in Care show and the shock was that Sam was the narator of that. Thanks to that film has now inspired me to write my own blog of my true time in foster care, with my actual real life case files and CAHMS records by my side.

Yours Sincerley

M

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There are certain thoughts that will not go away. That does not mean that I am mentally ill, hearing voices etc. These are just random thoughts. I keep thinking that by being silent “out loud”, about how I feel towards the people that have hurt me in my life, I am actually in effect condoning their actions.

There are certain people that just need to be told from me to them that I am angry. A locked room. Myself and those people. A chat. So I can just get it out of my system. It has taken three lots of anger management to release unquenchable rage into softer anger. It’s taken my silence for in case I am not believed, called a liar and all of the bad names that I have been called throughout of my life. I believed those things, which chipped at my already low esteem. I have the power to change it. I don’t need to rant or rave anymore. I can just acknowledge this. I suppose I blog, so I contain my inner anger instead of having those “chats”. I refuse to live in limbo a moment longer.

I am also trying to protect innocent parties of my seething anger. As they have no idea how angry I am, and it’s about their parents. I am angry at the social workers. I angry at people who are in seeming authority over me. As they are akin to being substitutes for “parents”. That does not make me anti social though. Only if I did lash out, rant and rave. It is the perception that people scrutinise of that. Listed here are the people I am angry at

1. My birth mother for “lying to protect herself and the real perpetrator” of that beating. The narcissist that is within every human being screams out in anger “WHAT ABOUT ME- THE CHILD”

2.  All of the social Workers I have had

3. The teachers who betrayed me

4. The groping teacher, music teacher Mr A

5. The abusive “boyfriend” who raped me more than once

6. The “abusive” foster brother who physically hurt me etc

7. The “long term foster carers” who were very mean to me. it seemed like I am not allowed to feel any emotion out loud because that is having a “tizzy”. That means I have been weakened. So I keep it all locked inside until the pressure builds up and I have to erupt every so often

8.   Present social workers.

In a way what I just wrote on a social networking site about my childhood in foster care is a way of releasing my anger. Visibly. There is a chance that the foster family’s children will read what I have written and be horrified and dumbstruck about what I am saying “out loud” in front of my entire friends list. But that saves me the hassle of a court case and suing the local authority concerned FOR NOW. But I cannot and will not stay silent ,because I don’t wanna upset them.

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Narrated by Samantha Morton.  I lived in the same “homeless hostel” as she calls it in 1993.

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Mr Booker would have to research the story fully Cartimandua, otherwise he’d be sued for libel. You really dislike these reports don’t you?. Every week now nearly I notice, that you tar all the parents. What is your problem hmm?. You must have a serious issue with every parent.

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http://www.communitycare.co.uk/Articles/2010/10/01/115454/munro-review-social-workers-fail-children-due-to-focus-on-rules.htm

Phew, now all parents can breathe a sigh of relief that this child protection bollox is just that. MYSELF included. Thank F**k for that. Screw you Social Services, put that in your goody bag and smoke it.

http://www.trentfm.co.uk/Article.asp?c=n&id=1969376

FOR ALL THESE YEARS I HAVE BEEN ACCUSED of being a unfit/bad parent by “professionals”

Neurotic and unstable even. I have been accused of fabricating illnesses, exaggerating it. For the past TEN years. The only people that believe me was one Paedatrician who did the test for ADHD to shut me up” in the end.For the record I was not present when the test was carried out by another doctor in the room. I refused to be in the room in case I was “accused ” AGAIN of manufacturing the symptoms. Thus transfering my own own anxieties of myself over, as a false reading. Those two paedatricians also found Dyspraxia, though they were NOT looking for that. For years my boy has been on medication sanctioned by the doctors. The symptomology varies in some people and they warned me OF THIS WITH THE SAID CHILD IN ATTENDANCE. Completley “off his plank and hyper” , though he had been given his meds. And it was the school that filled in the detailed questionnaires for that Paedatrician. NOT ME.

http://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/columnists/christopherbooker/8025178/Why-do-the-police-provide-the-muscle-for-forced-adoptions.

I am afraid the police and social workers work hand in hand. They often just do as they are told, like obedient sheep.

But in one case the police REFUSED to go along with an Emergency Protection Order. This is because they found nothing that needed criminal action, or that had been done that was a crime. So it depends on the coppers bravery to say NO sometimes as well. A police person can remove a child if they are in IMMEDIATE danger of “child cruelty”, this falls under the categories of wilful/gross neglect, physical and sexual abuse. Or put at at risk from somebody within the home.

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My esteemed former social worker, who ignored “stuff” that went on in the “house”. Or didn’t save me from further harm from odd people.

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IS THIS YOU?

Read between the lines with an air of sarcasm attatched. Not to be confused, as the newest Psychiatric definition of Sarcastic Personality Disorder.

Just when I thought it was safe to retreat into the world, “panic attacks coupled with anxiety with a hint of Agoraphobia. I am now thinking I should treat back into my house and carry on being a recluse, because I dislike crowds because THE WORLD is claustrophobic. There is too many people in this world.

There are too many potential anti-social yobs ( anti-social personality disorder) and too many people who think they are better than everybody else ( Grandiose tendancies arising from (Narcissistic Personality Disorder). I might get mugged by a person with Schizophrenia, who hears voices who might, have the potential from suffering from an acute Psychotic episode.

So what shall I do with myself ?

Shall I suffer in silence, inside the confines of my home,  becoming increasingly addicted to distraction techniques such as Facebook, television, Compulsive eating because it is depressing. Life is boring. If I moan too much does that make me a clinical depressive.

Or I  should I go scrub my house, until my knuckles bleed (Obsessive Compulsive Disorder). Check my light switches randomly to make sure I ACTUALLY PAID FOR MY ELECTRIC. Hmm we are all headed for the loony bin under the Mental Health Act of 1983, for sectioning for twenty days of assessment.  Is there anybody out there? ………………

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The definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

http://samvak.tripod.com/.

The definition of Narcissism according to Wikipedia

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissism

Dictionary transalation of the word

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/narcissism

To some extent and purposes EVERYBODY would fit into this description. When we look in the mirror getting ready to go out, apart from those who choose not to look in the mirror. To those who are super confident. To politicians, Government. Police officers. Not forgetting doctors. Social workers, lawyers etc. Dictators and Despots.The list is infinite. They must be equally Narcissistic when they gloat on about “success rates”. Mr Sigmund Freud et al has a lot to answer for. So that must mean we all have Personality Disorders then.  ( undetected)  Just a thought. !

The definition of Narcissistic Personality Disorder

http://samvak.tripod.com/.

The definition of Narcissism according to Wikipedia

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Narcissism

Dictionary transalation of the word

http://dictionary.reference.com/browse/narcissism

To some extent and purposes EVERYBODY would fit into this description. When we look in the mirror getting ready to go out, apart from those who choose not to look in the mirror. To those who are super confident. To politicians, Government. Police officers. Not forgetting doctors.Social workers, lawyers etc.Dictators and Despots.The list is infinite. They must be equally Narcissistic when they gloat on about “success rates”. Mr Sigmund Freud et al has a lot to answer for. So that must mean we all have Personality Disorders then. ( UNDECTED ) Just a thought. !

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Extract from the manuscript of I’ve just had a nightmare Mummy

I’ve just had a nightmare Mummy

Dedicated to the memory of Tracy Heather Dooley. 1979-2004

who inspired me to write some of the best poetry I ever wrote

rest in peace.  Night angel . Lots of Love,  Lissi

Melizza Moore ( A.K.A BY THESE FOLLOWING NAMES Liza,  Missi,  Mel-jay Mel and Melee)

SUPPRESSION

( what I  have struggled to hide all of my life)

I suffer from crushed head syndrome

everything was buried deeply within

I  must go to confession

and unburden my sin

The shame and the devastation

dirtiness,  dank and truly miserable

that caused me to retreat

into the oubliette of a wanton mind

So that that never again can this be a reapeat

an action replay- monochrome recollection

is this really me?

that makes me seem so nice

but then yet so volatile

nasty, course and corrupt

Its a jekyll and hyde thing

I am now ready to tell the full story

chapter by chapter

verse by verse.

Chapter One

WELCOME TO MY WORLD- INTRODUCING MYSELF

To all  of the people that claim to know me personally on the inside and back to front,  I’ve got news for them bigger than the News of the World.  They do not.  This is because inside of me, there a three personas- all merged into one that makes up what is genetically ME. Sometimes I am a commedienne just awaiting to get on the stage. Then I am every day me. Jovial happy go lucky me, then there is volitile scared entrapped childlike me.

Not many people have touched the surface of what is beneath all the chaos.  Sometimes I am totally at one with the  outer me. Its called depression  folks.  Something that I have been afflicted with for years. Possibly before the life changing events happened from the age of three. I was too scared to admit it out loud. I mask my insecurities behind the facade of being a happy go lucky  woman. But never mind all that shit. Shit happens for a reason , and today is an okay day.

I welcome you to my world, where jokes are sometimes abundant in supply. Yes this is my therapy.

Chapter Two- THE BEGINNING

My name is Melizza , pronounced Melissa, my mum couldnt even get the spelling of my name right either.  She has always claimed that she wanted to make me an individual- unique.Well she got that right. All of my life I  have thought about altering the spelling of my name,  so that I could have a normal name that people could pronounce with ease, but mother knows best. I am unique and wise in my actions.

I was born on April 1975,  at City hospital in Nottingham . My mum is called M.  I was a late arrival,  making her peeved that I did not come out, when I was suppossed to. She says she  was watching the film I don’t want to be born at the time. I was delivered by Dr R in the the morning after a 30 odd hour labour.

She was not impressed that a catholic priest came round to congratulate the new mothers. According to hospital records I turned blue/grey hue and stopped breathing.  I came to minutes later. Returning to a healthy pink complexion.  I weighed 5lb 3oz.  Relatively small for a full term pregnancy.

I was delivered by Neville Barnes forceps which left an imprint on my head. I was pale skinned, red lips and black hair. My mum called me little Snow White with a button nose.  She called me Melizza-Jayne,shortened to Liza which she calls me.  She only calls me Melizza-Jayne when I ve done something wrong.

I have always been a bonkers person right from when I was wearing nappies.  I was christened at the cathedral I believe.  My mum married Mr L in October of 1975.  As far as everybody was concerned,  this was my daddy.  On my medical records I was known as Melissa L/L. L is my grandparents name.  One year three months and 11 days.  I had been given a baby sister J.M.  Two years after this on 24th February W.E ( BROTHER) was born.  I can now remember terrorising my brother and sister.  I didn’t wanna play with them,  share my dolly with J.  Dolly was mine.  J and W played by themselves whilst I watched them from a distance. The big sister that I was.

This is all about me- an autbiography, my memories and my surroundings. I think people have always classified me as being eccentric, no I do not like that word, that makes me sound like a mad professor beavering away in the sanctuary of the study. I like the word bonkers or zany. Some  of my antics are downright funny, dangerous,  idiotic. I will share them with you now. Im ready.

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Those Hands

I can remember being scared of hands. Especially the ones that came towards me, especially in the dark. Scared of the dark. The nightmares and the flashbacks started happening when I was six years old. Our next door neighbour had an Alsatian dog that used to bite. He was called Max. I was scared of this dog. My mum used to have a dog like this. I could see in my ‘nightmares’ a black man, I now know to be R hurting me, not just physically, but touching me in private places. I was scared of willies. That meant they hurt. I was fascinated with the concept of sex. I used to wonder if I was really a little boy. I did not know anything about who I really was. I knew that my name was Liza. That is what I was always called until I started Manning, when I was thirteen years old. I was then called Melizza.

I also used to wonder why I was light brown colour. Was I a mixture of black? I did not know that my mum was mixed parentage. What was she, who was she? Nana and granddad, aunties and uncles all had white faces. They spoke funny. Did I speak funny because they did? To be a bit black was awful. I did not want to be a bit black. Scrubbing at my infantile skin with a hard brush, lots of soap, scrubbing the brownness my skin away. It signified pain and hurt, shiny white teeth glinting at me. The whiteness of the eye sockets looking at me in the dark. Apprehension as a little girl hearing the footsteps, loud and clumpy. I was felt close to N, I loved N. He was nice, smiley and understanding. He was like dad, calm and laid back. I was always scared of Mark. He was sometimes shouty. He scared me half to death. I didn’t like being near M.(brother) Creepy M – Nasty hands. R (SISTER) and I argued lots. I was ‘jealous’ of her because she had her own mum and dad from 6 weeks old. I was the odd one out. We did not see dad much. He was at work during the day, coming home after six. Mum being a good mum, making nice dinner in the kitchen. And nice pudding too. Did anybody want seconds? My hand always shot up for second helpings, especially for toad in the hole, lasagne.

Men’s hands sometimes still scare me green, whether they are black or white, hands that like to hit and hurt. If a man gets too close to me, I have to push them away. Men hurt. Unless I know they are nice men.

Occasionally every so often mum used to get shouty and hysterical, there was no calming her down. It used to terrify me.

Normally she was SO SO strict. If you were naughty you were sent upstairs. My room was my sanctuary. Door shut with a chair up against the door. The door closed. To see a door open meant anybody could saunter in and upset my equilibrium. I cannot seem to do anything right. She shouts at me in that sort of non threatening way of hers “Stop being silly Liza, no tea for you tonight, go to your room”.  That was fine by me coz I aint staying round ere any longer.  Fuck off the lot of you, you stuck up idiots. I will read my serial killers book in peace and bloody quiet said my thoughts.

When I was twelve or thirteen Mum and I had one of our yelling matches.  It was over a library book.  “Shut up for fucks sake” I said.  I go to hit her.  My blood is boiling in temper.  I’m gonna lash out if you do not SHUT YOUR MOUTH.

My eyes in their sockets starting to bulge, a blind fury.  It’s like I am not in my conscious body. TOTALLY OUT OF CONTROL, LOST THE PLOT.  Mum calls Dad in ‘desperation’.  Dad comes storming into my room. He slaps me across the face to placate me PERHAPS, I CANNOT BE SURE,  BUT IT HURTS,  but he  misses and hits my nose instead. I have a nosebleed. I am hysterical, ranting and raving. “That’s what R did to me”. I then say “You are not my real parents, I want my mummy” When I was younger they wanted to make me there proper daughter by adoption.  They didn’t really want screwed up little me.  But nice little boy R,  who was also there pretend boy before me.  To wanted to call me Liza B. But that meant losing my only link with my Mum and Nana. My name. So I refused.

I AM GOING TO RUN AWAY. “I’m going to tell my social worker Jean, what you did just then dad” So I did on my next visit. I am not a scared little girl anymore.

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LOWDOWN, DEEP, AND DOWNRIGHT DIRTY.

When I was 12, still at West Bridgford comp, I discovered by accident my athletic abilities. School sports day came and I ran like something was chasing after me at the 200m. I broke the school record. I knew I had to keep reasonably slim to excel in Athletics, but I was not prepared to stop eating my favourite foods. So like a cunning girl I was, I decided to eat eat and eat, then throw it all up after, brilliant plan. I could scoff all I liked and not put on weight. But the downside of that is that food was going missing out of the freezer and larder. It started to get suspicious, so I backtracked and decided not to eat much and throw up. After a few weeks the weight fell off, my waist was getting tinier. Chewing endlessly on chewing gum that contained no calories. It came in cycles from the age of fourteen.

When I started Manning, there was a rumour about Mr A the music teacher liking his girls. I was warned not to get close to him. He seemed a nice man, not at all as creepy as it was put to me, at all. He paid me compliments, told me I was a very good singer. He had me singing solo to him, him at his piano.  Singing the scales in the top notes. I was given the option to learn to play clarinet at school. I picked it up straight away. I moved on to private tuition with Mr W in West Bridgford at night. I learnt to play music from ear at a very young age. One night after tea, mum and dad were listening to their classical music records and I decided to play a tune on my recorder. I was asked to come down and replay the tune I was playing. I did. They were shocked. I had been given piano lessons when I was eleven, but I got bored. It was too complicated to master the art of using two hands to play the piano. Musical sing songs, me on recorder and everybody with their musical instruments playing Christmas carols. Mum or dad at the piano. The cold winter Christmas carolling with our church singing, with our best voices. How boring. Apart from the homemade mince pies and churchy posh friends of mum and dad. Me on my very best behaviour.

One day after music lesson, I was putting musical instruments on the shelf, when Mr A came up behind me. I mean right behind me, so that his body was pressing up against mine. I could feel his breathe on my neck. He touched my breasts from behind. Disgusting gnome! I was only thirteen; he was in his sixties, old enough to be my granddad. One day I caught Mr A looking up my friend’s skirt. He was pretending to look in a cupboard that was by the side of her. I can still see him doing that. I told her afterwards. She wore trousers to school after this. I was very wary around him; it was me that exposed him to our class as a pervert. I got chucked out of the lesson and sent to Mrs M. I repeated what I saw. I was not believed, as I was deemed to be a trouble maker and Mr A was a respected music teacher. My parents did not believe me either. It is strange that he resigned from his job a week or so later. Girls past and present congratulating me for my bravery. Another dirty male with filthy hands.

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http://www.guardian.co.uk/society/2010/sep/15/sharon-shoesmith-social-services-failure

She is right about one thing though, the level of care proceedings has hit through the roof SINCE Peter’s death. So paranoid are social services departments they are taking the very low risk and not the high risk ones. The logic does not fit really and it’s too over the top now.If a child is seriously abused whilst on a Child Protection plan and register then the buck stops at the top. Stop snivelling SHOESMITH, as well as all the other “watchers” are just as much at fault. Yeah yeah we know it was his parents that did it, but they watched ON.

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http://www.telegraph.co.uk/comment/columnists/christopherbooker/8010941/Child-protection-why-did-this-woman-lose-her-children.html

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Dear nice little nice social workers, who might nosing around my blog and infringing upon my human rights and civil liberties. I am writing this blog post ESPECIALLY for you. So I hope that you have a nice cup of tea or coffee  and a piece of cake, at your work terminal.

Why do find it a valuable asset to go checking upon folk anyway? Do you think that you are C.I.D as well as trained doctors as well?. It must that R.I.P.A I keep hearing about. Shouldn’t you be out catching more “nasty horrible parents” who REALLY  are abusing their kids. You know the ones that are covered in bruises, being sexually abused.  The kind of parents who are getting away with it. This is not a rant about the cases that have been published in the main stream media, but the cases that you all have on your desks collecting dust.

Why do you target parents, who are scared to fight you back? . Why must you walk around with that air of menace to you. That title of “social worker” captures that very image of child stealers. You know that children’s movie Chitty Chitty Bang Bang, where that nasty man with the hooked nose- that’s what the public see you as. A bit of advice and I’m certain other parents will agree with me that you need to lose that image and fast. Why is that I wonder why parents do not trust social workers? I have a feeling it is because they are being told that they can “trust you as I am your social worker”. But they do the exact opposite. All that scribbling after they have left a meeting is not how it might have been said. WHY DO YOU DO THIS?.

I think that you must love your job, making all parents look like monsters. Do you get trained in the art of flattery, bribery? Just like when a person is in a domestic violent situation, the perpetrator does the exact same thing. Manipulative, controlling. No wonder why people get scared. Including Judges, lawyers and the CAFCASS officials. Whoops sorry, they are mainly registered social workers aren’t they, so they side with you.

Do you enjoy being compared to the Nazi’s? .Just wondering that’s all. If you feel brave enough to comment to this. Feel free. But do not try to intimidate me by threatening me ever again. As I’m a lot  psychologically tougher than you think.

When you make threats to the parents, it DOES affect the children. It’s called emotional blackmail.  If you are a “nice” social worker who does genuinley want to help families stay together, no matter what, please keep doing so. Don’t be shocked by my entry, then do your best to oust the awful ones that act in this thug like manner to families and BLOW THEIR WHISTLE. As the system needs to change and FAST.

A parent.

p.s  You have made up a new definitions to take children into care and then adoption haven’t you?  ”At risk from emotional harm”. Which boils down any time in the future, not like it has actually proven to have happened. But tommorrow I might get run over by a tram. I checked your criteria by FOI,  it basically means anything you deem easy to use against the parent. I’m sure all you have a Mary Poppins perfect family life though.

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